I like dressing skimpy (short shorts, mini skirts, low rise jeans, tight tops, see thru tops). My stepdad would buy me mostly shorts and tank tops when i was 14 and 15, when my mom and he got divorced i stayed to live with him and then i would ask him to buy me skimpier things and he was ok with it. He would buy me thongs, g-strings, bras, micro skirts, short shorts, see thru tops etc., should i have not asked him to do this?
2006-10-09 19:41:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am now 18
2006-10-09 19:58:45 · update #1
It doesnt give me the creeps i was more wondering does anyone have a cool dad or stepdad like him
2006-10-09 20:02:06 · update #2
Well I think it's ok, as long as your dad is ok with it.
2006-10-09 19:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by Rollercoaster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your Step Dad is a Pervert. See through tops are not something a normal dad would buy his Daughter . Next he'll be trying to get into your skimpy shorts he bought you . Maybe if he had respect for you . He would of told you NO..... Respect yourself and move back with your Mom or other family . You might have someone who will show you the right way of judging people...
2006-10-09 19:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by marshoberg55 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure did you ask him and he gave you the money or did he pick these clothes out himself? Also had he been overly friendly with you it is a hard line to draw when a parent or step parent he could be trying to just make you happy or have ulterior motives it seems like you are wondering this how old are you now you said at 14 or 15 he bought you shorts and tanks why ask him to buy this stuff and then question his motives if it looks like he's trying to be more than dad to you tell your mom or someone now
2006-10-09 19:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by katlady927 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm an person and that i think of that skimpy clothing isn't suited for many women. particularly young women. i'm able to't have self belief how some females are keen to gown at present. I also have a youthful daughter (8 years old) and he or she tries to gown like that. Skirts virtually short sufficient to work out her panties and issues like that. i think of it makes females look tremendously trashy in the event that they are keen to stroll around almost bare.
2016-10-16 00:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your his step daughter and he buys all of your bras and underwear...and your 18...and your okay with it??! You maybe need to think about actually wearing some clothes, and not letting this guy see everything about you. Its not okay for your stepdad to buy you skimpy clothes...hes supposed to be the one thats trying to cover you up from the world...
2006-10-09 20:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is supposed to be your role model and father figure in your life which means that he should tell you not to buy such clothes. He shouldnt be buying you thongs ang g-strings if you are 15, he is wrong and you shouldnt trust that. You need to go be with your mom and you need to try to dress more classy rather than weaing things that leaves nothing to the imaginaiton.
2006-10-09 20:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon...what really is the difference between a stepdad and biological father?? Just bcause he is not directly responsible for your birth does not take away his duties and values for u. Would he have done that to his biological daughter?? Ugghhh....what a crazy guy and u seem crazier when u call him cool.....as someone said, he has the hots for you and would not mind taking off all those thongs and g-strings given half a chance!!
2006-10-09 20:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by dallymel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! absolutely not, buy your own skimpy cloths and be sure not to show to much..A lot of crazy people out in the world today of uncertainty..
Be careful, you could be getting in to deep water, wearing all these skimpy cloths..Think, use your head, there are many crazy men who would not hesitate to take advantage girl..I have five sons, I here how they talk..
2006-10-09 19:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by shea_harriet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is so wrong on so many levels. I have spent way too much time around pedophiles and perverts because I WAS married to one until I found out what he was and then I dumped him and he went to jail. I learned what these ppl look for and what they do to "groom" the potential victim. And is sounds as if he is "grooming" you. Go live with your mom. You will be safer.
2006-10-09 20:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by madamesophia1969 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I think that if you're asking this question then you must already have some doubt about his intentions. It seems like there is more to the situation than you are saying? If you don't think that he is being inappropriate and that he really cares for you then have a heart to heart with him concerning your wardrobe. Maybe you questioning the situation just means that your style is maturing.
2006-10-09 19:49:56 · answer #10 · answered by desiree_vanrosendale 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think it's o.k. for him to buy you clothes like that he's supposed to be a father figure to you and look out for you , not dress you like a street walker ... why are you with him and not your mom anyways he's not your real dad.. just the thought of it gives me the creeps, and it sounds like it gives you the creeps to or you wouldn't be asking this question..you should tell your mom or someone and if he does anything to make you feel weird you should most definitely TELL..it sounds to me like he doesn't have your best interest at heart
2006-10-09 19:58:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋