If all you friends you once had suddenly were all gone?
Over the past couple of years that is what I feel has happened to me.
I dont know what I have done, but although they all live close, none of them seem to want anything to do with me.
Any advice?
2006-10-09 19:18:17 · 8 answers · asked by Denise 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That has happened to me, only all of my have died in the last 7 seven years, since we all got out of high school. It hurts like hell for a long time, but the pain goes away and new friends are made.I moved to the other side of the country and just put myself out there. I just resolved to always be myself and the people who I would like to have will find me. Also, when people grow up, they sometimes grow apart, due to different lifestyles, changes in circumstance occur.I love all of the people that I grew up with even though I never see or hear from them. A good friendship lasts forever in the heart. Anyway, just tell your friends how you feel and if they really are your friends, they will give you an explanation and apologize for hurting your feelings.
2006-10-09 19:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to reconnect with them again. Call them up and go out for a movie or invite them over for dinner just to catch up. If it really seems that they don't want to be around you, try to get to the bottom of the issue. A friendship takes two people to make it work.
2006-10-09 19:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by kaluah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could it be you...and you just don't realize it....or maybe they just moved on...ppl usually do, and you know things never stay the same... as much as we would like for it to unfortunatly it doesnt...all i could say to you that if they don't want to have anything to do with you...well then move on...its hurtful but you can't sit around wasting your time and energy on those who are not wasting their time on you....if its really that bad try finding some new friends....get over it.
2006-10-09 19:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things happen in life. As you get older you form new relationships and friendships, find new interests.
2006-10-09 19:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by pinxta01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to give more info why dont they want anything to do with you did you do something why dont you call them up and say hey why arent we as close as we use to b i feel like i might have done something to offend you
2006-10-09 19:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why?..do you think were all here...try dropping a little note in her mailbox and say hi..havent seen ya in awhile ..this happens alot..people loose touch...
2006-10-09 19:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF IT'S TRUE, CHECK THIS: DO YOU MAKE FUN OF THEM? DO YOU BAD MOUTH ON THEIR BACK? DO YOU KEEP ASKING FOR FAVOURS AND REFUSE TO HELP WHEN ASKED? DO YOU NOT KEEP YOURSELF CLEAN? DO YOU MAKE THEM FEEL SMALL WITH WITH YOUR BIG TALKS? DO YOU INSULT THEM IN PUBLIC OR IN FRONT OF FAMILY? IF ANY 2 ANSWERS ARE YES, CHANGE YOURSELF...
2006-10-09 19:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by Classic101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out there and make new friends.....its not hard......you can have many acquantices in life but you will only ever have a handful of real friends in a life time....if your lucky......
2006-10-09 19:20:48 · answer #8 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋