I have two problems about friendship about 2 different friends:
1.) ok, i have this friend who says bad things behind my back and always leaves me when she's around other people.So i started to say bad but REAL things behind her back too, to show her how it feels but i did it secretly so she wont find out,like the way she did to me but i found out that shesaid bad things behind my back. After that we are still friends but its like a PLASTIC FRIENDSHIP. I pretend that i dont know whats goin on, but i do. And it obvious that she knows too. Its like we dont want to stop being friends but we really hate eachother.
2.) I have this other friend. We're ok but she likes making side comments. Like when someone does something similar to what she does or what other does. She tells them they have no originality. she did that to me for about 17 times already. now, im avoiding her. I wanted to say to her face that she is one SPOLED,HEARTLESS,WANNABE,BRAINLESS S H I T!
shes the one who copies every1
2006-10-09 18:49:57 · 6 answers · asked by Yo. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i'm thinking you have an unhealthy definition of friend and i mean unhealthy for you. a friend is someone whom you can tell anything without them judging you and someone that you would not hesitate telling the hardest, most embarrassing, shameful things to. a friend is someone who when they see you looking left out, they pull you into a conversation and make you feel involved, etc. these "plastic" relationships are those which are wasting time that can be used trying to find genuine people you will make lasting bonds with and those bonds will last a lifetime, remember one other thing. friends don't do things for you for something in return, they do it because they know you would do the same for them if given the chance. hope this helps a great deal
2006-10-09 19:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by retep1979 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-26 14:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to your 1st friend and clear the air that friendship can still be saved and at least she is there for you. maybe once you two work everything out it might even make the friendship stronger. the 2nd friend i would tell her how you feel about the way she talks to and how she treats other and let her know that your not willing to hang out with her unless her attitude changes. she could say something to someone one night and get you involved. blessings hope this helps you out.
2006-10-09 19:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell both them bitches straight up keep friend number one cause that is something you can get over it happens to girls who have been friends along time and find there selves maturing at the same time, the second friend is just stuck up or trying to hide something about herself and usually people who come up with something first wont want to brag about it all the time they will sit back and let others compliament them.
2006-10-09 18:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by cwannaknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Left them and find nice friends.
2006-10-09 18:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by maryam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to get some new, non-sucky friends.
2006-10-09 18:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by Akfek_Branford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋