He happens to be my boss. We were very good friends prior to working together. Over a period of 3 months of working together, we became intimate etc. etc. We had everything except intercourse. The feelings I had during that time was so good esp. whenever he says something in your ear or call you on the intercom and says hi sweety etc. But just a week has passed by & his behaviour has changed. He has started avoiding me and talks to me only when required about work. This hurts me a lot and I feel that I’ve been used. What do you infer from his behaviour and what do I do about it. Pls help.
2006-10-09 18:36:17 · 5 answers · asked by Cutie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He was using you for the booty call and has decided to stop cheating or some higher up in the company found out and told him to stop. If he is not the owner of the company and his superiors found out about your affair, they would tell him to stop A.S.A.P. Companies are slapped with lawsuits all the time over this type of behavior. If his wife found out, she told him to stop before she leaves his a** and takes the house, kids, cars, and a large chunk of his check for support. What did you think would happen when someone found out ? Did you think he would give everything up for you ? It never works out................ next time find a single guy !
2006-10-10 02:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by turbietech 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, here it comes,,,What were you thinking!! There are lines that you just don't cross. He apparently didn't get it on with you but he will with someone else, if he isn't already. And don't be suprised if you find that he has not only lost respect for you that you will soon be looking for employment elsewhere. You probably didn't think about this one but he has probably already started rumors about you. This guy is a pig. This is a no win situation all around. You need to turn in your resignation and find another job. Oh and just think about this one also, if he has done this with you, he has done this with probably an untold number of others as well. So its good you didn't have intercourse because no telling what you might of caught. Here is a suggestion though, you could call his home and let his wife know that you got your results back and their positive. But that would also be asking for trouble. And he isn't worth it. Just move on and learn from this. I will caution you though, as long as your there he is going to mess with you and try to intimidate you. So there is always going to be tension and anxiety, is this job worth it? NO!
2006-10-10 02:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the un-sugar coated truth is you kind of set yourself up for this to happen knowing he was married. Sadly, yes you were probably used to boost his ego or get back at his wife. He either got caught or was running the chance of getting caught or he was plain and simply done with you. Consider this a hard lesson learned and move on. You have to forget about him and let it go even if he decides he wants to pursue you again. It's only going to end up with someone being severely hurt (just like you were). I'm sorry...
2006-10-10 01:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by mother_flower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved with a married man. You should know better. He won't leave his wife for you. He's being cold because he feels guilty about what he did with you. When the guilt wears off, he will try to entice you again. Don't fall for it. This pattern will repeat over and over until you break ties with him, even if it means quitting your job!
2006-10-10 01:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by miyazaki75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats what you get 4 FUC*IN wit a married man....your feelings get crushed...n you got what you asked 4. You did it to yourself!!!
2006-10-10 01:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by So_Needless_2_Say 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋