my friend has came to me for some advice b/c her stomach has been hurting for the past couple of weeks and i joking told her she was pregnant and she got upset. she told me that everytime her b/f and her had sex he has never "finished" so how is it possible?
2006-10-09 18:36:01 · 16 answers · asked by sam 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Even when a man doesn't "finish", he can leak seminal fluid into the woman and this can impregnate her. Even when the penis is not actually inserted into the vagina, but just on the outside, there is a possibility of seminal fluid entering and impregnating. This is why birth control is essential (a condom preferably to prevent STD's too.
She could very possibly be pregnant and needs to get checked.
2006-10-09 18:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by JaneB 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignorance is Bliss but can get you into trouble.
It is possible for your friend to be pregnant even her boyfriend never "finishes". She should always use some sort of protection if she is not ready for motherhood. Her boyfriend should be thinking about this as well!
Pre-ejaculate is releaded during intercourse and although it does not contain as much sperm as when the male fully ejaculates you can still get pregnant. So, give your friend some advice and tell her to go and get a pregnancy test if she is already late. Of course, if she still does not get her period she needs to go to the doctor for further testing.
IF she is not pregnant she needs to invest in some condoms as well as other forms of birth control so that she does not end up a young parent.
2006-10-09 18:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by bella_estrella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is semen in pre-ejaculatory fluid as well. The risk is lower, but there is still a risk. Is she using a birth control method? "Withdrawal" is not a reliable method of birth control! She should consider starting another method of birth control. Condoms are an accessable and reliable form of birth control and infection control too. If she is concerned about pregnancy she should get a pregnancy test, she could be pregnant if she has been having unprotected sex, which from you've been saying she has been.
2006-10-09 18:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpea77thst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, NEVER believe a guy he probably said that so she wont freak out and quit putting out. I dont think ive ever heard of a guy not finishing. For females that happens all the time cuz the guy doesn't take no time. But no guy is going to stop till they finish. Especially more than once, I dont know if shes preg or not but you need to always remember that SEX is about people in love and it never feels as good as it could if you where in love. NEVER BELIEVE A GUY NEVER!!!!
2006-10-09 18:41:32 · answer #4 · answered by montoyaj00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the ladies' answers are quite good. However, let me add that if you are pregnant, contact the guy who can't finish and tell him you are pregnant and you'd like to arrange to get married before you give birth to your child. Then go get a marriage license and a marriage certificate and your precious child will respect you both forever. If you aren't pregnant, consider yourself lucky, use the protection described if you decide to live dangerously again. Don't be stupid again. Get married first.
2006-10-09 19:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, it is achievable. Having intercourse in the time of a few key days in the time of that factor of the month as a potential of beginning administration is termed the rythm technique. this methodology of beginning administration relies upon heavily on timing - in case you do it on the suited dates then you quite could be secure. while you're even at some point without work then you quite could finally end up with a bun interior the oven...
2016-10-16 00:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by swett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a little something called pre-***. This happens before the male ever orgasms. You are just as likely to get pregnant from this, as you are if he "finishes"
2006-10-09 20:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by sameileen19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it IS possible!! Even though he didn't finish..there was a real light flow of sperm releasing from his penis the WHOLE TIME!!! Its called Pre-Ejaculate....She needs to get a pregnancy test!!
Good Luck
2006-10-09 18:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible. She needs to see a doc. Even the pull-out methond is only 70% effective. I have a beautiful daughter that is three months old, and my husband I weren't trying! Catch my drift.
2006-10-09 18:44:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the clear liquid-precum-that the man produced during sex can contain sperm. so even if he doesn't "finish" the risk is still there for pregnancy if a condom wasn't used (or other form of birth control)
NEVER have unprotected sex-The act of sex is not worth dying over-STD's & HIV can kill you
2006-10-09 18:43:01 · answer #10 · answered by rwl_is_taken 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋