I need to find a hobby that I love.... I love animals but I Can't go volunteer at a humane society or anything because I am extremly shy and it affects my life alot... I need to find out what I am good at... how can i do that?
2006-10-09 18:31:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Games & Recreation ➔ Hobbies & Crafts
First discover what looks fun to you. I love working with sculpey clay. I'm not great at it but I get better over time. I just like to do it because its fun.
I'm shy and love animals too. You probably wouldn't have to come in contact with people too much at a humane society. Just tell them you'd like to work with the animals. If you're volunteering I would think they would appreciate whatever you wanted to do.
2006-10-09 18:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by lucy02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be painfully shy and avoided all sorts of situations because I was afraid I would have to interact with people but due to an unusual set of circumstances,I was forced to take a job after high school that required me to not only interact with people but to put up with a great deal of rudeness. At first it was a nightmare for me but the work itself was fun because I found out I was pretty good at it....that began to give me more confidence and after a while,I found being around people and interacting with a wide variety of personalities began to erase my shyness. If I hadn't been forced into taking this job,I never would have gotten over my shyness and never would have found some of my true talents. Don't wait to be forced....find a job that sounds interesting and just keep doing it as a challenge to yourself. You will gain confidence as you develop skills and eventually you will find that your shy nature doesn't have to rule your life. Maybe you can seek employment,even volunteer employment,at an animal hospital to combine your love of animals with the need to rid yourself of a crippling shyness. Good luck and blessings!
2006-10-10 14:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by jidwg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love animals then you should go and volunteer at the humane society weather your shy or not you can't get over something unless you meet it head on you'll feel more comfortable after you get to know the people
,drag a friend with you, but if you just cant bring yourself to do it just try different things until you find something you like
2006-10-10 01:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as far as getting rid of your shyness goes, all you got to do is get out there.
Start by asking your friends to introduce you to there friends- you never know who you'll meet!
Also, if there's a club or anything that is for animal lovers like you, see about joining them. After spending some time with them, you won't be so shy any more.
You can probably ask your teacher if there are any clubs around like that. And if they don't know, they might know someone who could point you in the right direction.
2006-10-10 10:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by Mononoke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try working at a place with animals. Just be bold and go apply for a job. I am really shy too, but if you do get the job, you will make friends and you will not be so shy, and you will have fun. Don't worry and just be spontaneous and volunteer. I also had to just make myself do it
2006-10-10 01:35:27 · answer #5 · answered by havoks_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some videos, books, or audiobooks that teach you meditation. Find who you are. Sometimes they say you have to face your fears. In order to get out your creative side, or to work volunteering you might just have to make yourself. Maybe you can breed an animal. There has to be something that you can do. Maybe the first step is to learn to conquer your fears, or shyness.
2006-10-10 01:42:20 · answer #6 · answered by idontknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRY ALL s0rts of different things and see if y0u like it 0r n0t. t0 tell y0u tha truth, if y0u want t0 d0 a h0bby that inv0vles pe0ple and things.. y0u have t0 get 0ver y0ur shyness.
i USE t0 be SHY bef0re.. like i HATED presentati0ns at sch0ol f0r 0ur pr0jects or d0in things infr0nt 0f pe0ple that i hardly kn0w. but 0vertime, i g0t 0ver it and it wasnt s0 bad at all.. it was ALL BECAUSE 0F CHURCH that made me a wh0le NEW pers0n.
but yes, y0u sh0uld TRY ALL S0RTS 0f activities and see what y0u like best.
G00D LUCK!! =]
2006-10-10 01:42:58 · answer #7 · answered by ud0wne4this 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I's easy to find out what you are good at. Just figure out what kind of things you apreciate the most. and you don't have to be good at all you have to do is enjoy what you are doing, the skill comes with time.
2006-10-10 01:50:15 · answer #8 · answered by omar g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can know about that by asking others i.e your friends, brothers , your closed ones, and do everything that you love tod dont care about the world and while doing, think that by doing the thing you love, you are better than those persons who dont do what they love because of shyness. ok.
2006-10-10 01:43:27 · answer #9 · answered by moonwalker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it try different things. dont spend you life avoiding things you dont like instead of going for things you like.
2006-10-10 01:39:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋