I have print offs from the computer where my husband got on personals and adult friend finder and tried to meet woman plus I have things printed off myspace saying he has GF and that they have had sex. In my state legal seperation dosent mean you can see someone it is still adultrey. He had the girlfriend during seperation and the other stuff started 3 months after we married. He supposidly has print offs of me saying I cheated on him but during seperation and only once. Is the stuff I have better, and will it hold in court?
2006-10-09 17:34:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Perhaps it may and you will definitely need an attorney to help you.
2006-10-09 17:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judges have a way of weeding out the bullcrap. Did you cheat on him?2 wrongs dont make a right. However, it all boils down to your lawyer and how good he is. the judge may think you are both stupid and grant the divorce and go for a custody hearing later if you have kids. Unless there is a HUGE amount of money involved, let go and move on. It isnt worth the fees and the stress. Divorces are usually ugly cause you hate each other and want them to suffer legally. In the long run it isnt worth the torment. Someday if you can ever let go of your hate you will see that. Im much better off now that I let go. He is much less of a vindictive *** because I refuse to let him get to me. Good luck!
2006-10-09 17:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by tiredinaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like it is going to a bitter and long seperation.....just get it over with and not fight...you are both better off without each other.
2006-10-09 17:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by Fiji_bound2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact your legal aide person for possible free advise. Or even in the yellow pages i found places that will give you a free phone consultation.
2006-10-09 17:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They will most likely not use either. The computer can be munipuated to much.
2006-10-09 17:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by Kathy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter as regrades the divorce, but can be used as regards custody.
2006-10-09 17:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope and I doubt it will hold up in court if that's all you got.
2006-10-09 18:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would probably pay you to get an attorney.
2006-10-09 17:39:48 · answer #8 · answered by Kim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋