2006-10-09 17:29:36 · 10 answers · asked by mira 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dear Mira,
If you are an Indian in my opinion you have done the correct thing, as have sex with a person is a very intimate and an act to be enjoyed and unless your mind and soul is in it you should not.
The reason people wait to sleep with someone is to avoid doing something they might later regret. And though I think it's safe to say that these people are in the minority, some men ‑- are just out to have sex. These are the people who will move on quickly once their appetites are sated. And if you force such people to wait awhile to have sex, they're apt to get bored and move on (which also means the person looking for a relationship is less likely to get burned). Hopefully this guy, who says he really likes you, does really like you. That doesn't guarantee that the relationship will continue, but it increases the odds. Just keep in mind that there are always risks when starting a relationship and there are plenty of reasons why it might not work out.
Let me also the part about purely sexual relationships. I am against such relationships. Part of the reason is that I am admittedly old-fashioned and a square. But there's another reason too: We all have only a finite time on this earth, and we don't know just how much time that will be. Time is our most precious commodity ‑- more valuable than gold or diamonds ‑- which is why we shouldn't waste it. If sex is the only reason he wants, then during that time period you're much less likely to meet someone with whom you could have a committed relationship (whether that be marriage or not), you're actually wasting your own valuable time. Rather than invest that time in a relationship that you know has no future, my advice would be to stop seeing someone like that.
Keep in mind that I'm speaking generally about relationships that are based only on sex. I'm not saying that you should drop this man, because I've already said that your relationship could be more, but that is for you to judge.
But from your question if I where you I would walk out on this guy.
Good Luck rr
2006-10-09 19:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by Rahul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on who this man is, why are you with him, why are you so alone with him. You shoud make sure that you are not alone with him in any circumstance, if this man is your husband then try the local Womens shelter. They can help you. If this guy is a relative and not your husband, go to police through the Womens shelter people.
No one has the right to exploit you under any circumstance. Stand up and be bold and say NO as hard as you can kick him in the balls if you can. If not just right that you have to suffer this. Please seek help right away.
2006-10-09 21:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 03:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by dorseyiii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the article from the link below and Please be carefull.
BostonHerald.com - Local & Regional: State: Brutal slaying spurred by sex rejection
... was sparked by her sexual rejection of a Dorchester man who strangled ... State: Brutal slaying spurred by sex rejection. By Casey Ross. Boston Herald Reporter
news.bostonherald.com/localRegional/view.bg?articleid=139448
2006-10-12 23:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by Krishna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Mira. Now a days girls has to be strong to protect herself. Tell this to your parents first & with there help give FIR to police regarding sexual harrasement.
See one has to be BOLD to protect herself. Dont afraid otherwise your life will be measurable.
2006-10-09 19:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by narendra k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in high school or college, get help from the administration against him.
Or go to the law.
2006-10-09 18:09:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him in the nuts. For the next few days every time he thinks of you, his balls will ache. This should stop him longing for sex with you
2006-10-09 17:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by Millie Mello 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if hes doing this every day then consider him dangerous and report him.
2006-10-09 17:41:11 · answer #8 · answered by eric s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
can you say restraining order? can you say police involvement? can you say arrested? i knew you could.
2006-10-09 17:34:19 · answer #9 · answered by Sylvia H 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
report him to his parents if he has any .
2006-10-09 17:33:54 · answer #10 · answered by goodguy7 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋