Okay, this is really weird by my ex-husband was dating a girl after we seperated (prior to the actual divorce) for about a year! During the last two months of their relationship, they broke up and she ended up getting pregnant! She moved out, moved in with baby's daddy (the ex is DEFINITELY fixed - I should know) and had the baby moved in with his father. She left him two weeks ago and is playing "friendsies" with my ex. All is fine and dandy, EXCEPT FOR THE FACT that he can't even afford to take care of his own two daughters (THE REAL ONES) and I have tried to explain to him that she's just looking for another's baby's daddy! He thinks I am being a ***** and that I am jealous (which I may be a little) but personally, I believe that he is in no position to be hooking up with anybody with kids seeing as he can't take care of his own! He owes me $10,000 in child support and although he does see his kids, I believe that this woman is looking for daddy #2 which the ex is not!
2006-10-09 17:15:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In response to a response I have gotten, the answer is no, I would absolutely date someone with kids.... provided they take care of them!!! Secondly, no I am not dating my ex but he eats my food (I don't have any money for the kids this weekend... quote...unquote...) and he's always after me for sex!!! I don't give it up to him but he asks!!!
2006-10-09 17:31:31 · update #1
another thought.... we are going to Friend of the Court next week and I told him, you better cough up some money or I will request that they put you in jail.... He said whatever.... then do it... And I said, look buddy, I am trying to work with you here but $1200 in the last 18 months isn't **** and I am trying to get you to realize that I need help!!! Likewise, when Mr. Smiley Face left the marriage him and his GF blew over $30,000 cash out of our joint assets!!! CASH that I was ordered to give him!!! Now do you all see why I am concerned?? My kids will be eating PB&J while his ho and him got out bar hopping!!!
2006-10-09 17:36:30 · update #2
Thanks Colleen_O for calling me a spoiled child!! You're damn right he can spend them on anything he wants... but when I am calling my parents to ask for grocery money, dance lessons and PJ's then I guess that I am not that spoiled. When I am taking back bottles so we can have fruit and veggies in the house - then I guess I am spoiled! When I have to tell them no for trips and b-day parties,I am spoiled! While Drunk *** One (the ex) and Coke head 2 (the GF) are spending money in bars and on drugs, then I am whining - right?? Sorry, darlin, but I live a drug free life and I take care of my kids!!! I don't think that is being spoiled!!
2006-10-09 18:54:21 · update #3
So he blew his share of the marital assets on another woman..so what, he is your ex he is entitled to use his share of the marital assets any way he chooses Sounds to me as if you're jealous and probably want him back. If you weren't his dating life and who he dates would be of no interest to you. As for the child support, I doubt very much he will go to jail. They don't do that any more they just garnish wages/income tax returns and if there is nothing there to go after they check his social security number and take anything in any accounts he has under that number. However he has every right to life his life as he chooses, you don't own him, you're no longer married to him...and if you continue HE can have YOU jailed for harassment. My advice to you is to grow up. You act like a spoiled child.
2006-10-09 18:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself a good man and move on. He isnt worth it. Stick him for his child support. He should at least pay for the babies he made. WHo cares about the person he's with now. You dont really know her or her situation. You could just be seeing what you want to see or have been told. Move on and make sure your daughters dont pick the same type schmuck you did.
2006-10-09 17:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by tiredinaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he can make up his own mind. even though he is not paying support which he should why is it wrong to hook up with a lady who has a kid. If you meet a man and he decides to be with you would you want him to make one of the criteria to be with you is to not have kids? deal with the issues that you have with your baby daddy and stop being concerned about the other lady. didn't you know he owed you support when you were together? take a breath. take him to court have him pay support and drop the animosity for the sake of your kids. don't worry about him he is not dating you anymore.
2006-10-09 17:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by sexylousleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your EX, then why do you care. Just sue his socks off until he coughs up every penny of the $10,000. If he wasn't good the first time, he's not worthy of jealousy.
2006-10-09 17:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by M. J. B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop beeing jelous.
First, get legal action to force him to pay you back.
Second, let him drown in all of the bullshit he wants. Serves him right for not beeing responsible. Your kids come first, remember that. Let him **** up all he wants.
2006-10-09 17:19:11 · answer #5 · answered by Lord of the Apocalypse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you care what your ex is doing?
Move on dear, remember you two did get divorced for a reason.
2006-10-09 17:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't waste any more of your breath, he won't listen to you. Get yourself a lawyer to help convince him to take care of his own children. The farther he gets behind, the worse it will be for him & you.
2006-10-09 17:30:01 · answer #7 · answered by papershadows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's your ex - so its none of your business - talk to your lawyer about your child support.
2006-10-09 17:20:21 · answer #8 · answered by zqx357 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋