how much do boobs really matter?

Question

So, I have issues with my boobs... especially when it comes to my boyfriends.
I overall a pretty confident person, and I think that attracts men, but I’m really self conscious when it comes to my breasts.
I’m 5'5, 97lbs and like a b34. I where push-up bras and I feel like such a fake! But then again if you can’t fix it, fake it (haha that makes sense to me....).
Girls (that understand & guys, or know what I’m talking about etc.), what do you think?
Hey guys... be honest-

please be honest, I know it’s all about MY opinion.. but I would really like to hear what guys REALLY think, aside from being nice.

Answer 1

honestly, smaller boobs can be verry sexy, and this is coming from a guy who realy likes boobs

Answer 2

Ok...- I'm a guy, & yes, I've always liked big boobs too... But you know what?- Most of the girlfriends I've had along the way have had very average figures... So there must've been something ELSE in "play" to make me attracted to THEM instead of the top-heavy bimbo that distracted me off the road & over the cliff! The bottom line IS; if you have a good personality- a good head on your shoulders, enough brains to maintain an intelligent conversation & a nice sense of humor- then your going to be the answer to every other wonderfull guys dream... And from the sound of your question- that "other" guy is just around the corner... :)

Answer 3

Since the turn of the 90s there has been an explosion in breast enhancement surgery and push up bra sales as more and more women obsess over the size of their breasts.

While many men often fantasize about large breasted women, they are relegated to the bottom of the league by women themselves who spend millions on improving their cleavage.

For most women, being flat chested is somehow seen as being less of a women while for others, breast enlargement is the modern day equivalent of a Prada handbag. Never before has the media driven world influenced women like today.

Not too long ago, small breasted women used chicken breasts, toilet roll, cotton or socks to pad out their bust. Those days are over.

Women can alter their breast size in their lunch break with a breast enhancement operation and can even alternate between cup sizes for a different look with specially designed breast pumps, such are the options now available.

Some industry spokespeople are predicting that as much as 70% of flat chested women or women with small breasts in the US and UK alone will undergo breast enhancement by 2015 as prices fall and techniques become more practical.

Chances are if you have small breast and are reading this, you have already had a discussion with either your parents, partner or a specialist about boosting that bust of yours.

But does size really matter? the answer would be an unequivocal YES!

However, smaller breasts have their advantages over larger breasts and there is an admittedly minority of women who refuse to bow to peer pressure or the media's insatiable appetite for bigger boobs, vowing never to go under the knife, and to remain natural.

Actress Nicole Richie (daughter of legendary soul singer Lionel) for one who says: "I used to want a bigger chest, but now I like being flat. Clothes fit better, and I don't really need to wear a bra."

Bigger breasts may look great and draw the attention of the opposite sex like bees to honey but they can be unpractical, and a burden. For every women wishing they had bigger breasts there is a large breasted women who would gladly trade places.

Large breasts sag quicker, where as smaller breasts tend to keep their form and shape much longer and generally look better, more in proportion with the body.

Then there is the pain associated with big breasts, the lack of variation in bra types, exercising can also be obstructive and uncomfortable for larger breasted women.

Yes, today having small breasts does seem like a quirk or a glitch in the design, but unless your dream to have bigger breasts is genuine and for emotional reasons and not superficial reasons, then a bigger bust could well mean bigger problems for you.

As ever, only you can answer whether you are happy with your breasts.

Answer 4

most guys do like boobs! i'm not gonna lie to you.. however, i've realized that I'm more attracted to a girls personality rather than her body.. sure, a great figure is nice, but it's what's on the inside that counts. even if a guy dates the hottest girl, if she has no personality, then their relationship amounts to nothing. i'm being totally honest... i hate dating girls that are full of themselves... im into ordinary down to earth people... don't be concerned with your body.. and whoever you date should appreciate you and love you for who you are. be confident, and i'm sure you'll go far! =)

Answer 5

I am a guy. Size does not matter. Firmness is what matters. That being said, there are more small firm boobs than there are large firm ones. I would rather have small firm boobs to hold and look at than large saggy ones. Keep in mind that as you age, larger breasts are more likely to lose their firmness.

Answer 6

Keep it real. Fake ones feel odd and tend to look out of place as you get older. As for the men, for every one that complains there are six that would be glad to take his place. Be happy with who you are, you will be better for it in the long run.

Answer 7

At your height and weight you are perfect. I wouldn't bother wearing push up bras with your figure. Just remember that in one point in time you will have to be exposed to your true self, a nd if you are not true to anyone you are not true to yourself.. Be yourself and you'll be perfect.

Answer 8

as long as the breats are real, any size is good. i do detest fake ones. you seem to be slender, so huge ones probably wouldn't fit well on your frame. each girl I've been with was sexy in her own way and the size of her breasts rarely had anything to do with it. that's my own honest perspective.

Answer 9

i had my breasts reduced cos they were Double E. It was horrible. Now i'm a large D and I still want them smaller. Don't gowishing for large breasts. They bouce, sag and hurt!!!!

Answer 10

in this internet age, guys are bored by average sized anything, including breasts. if your breasts are proportionately large compared to your body, that will stand out in a big way.

(ps. i'm a butt/leg man.)