Whenever I go to the swimming pool or after a work out, I go to the change room to take a shower. I try not to look at the other guys, but no matter what I do I end up getting a hard on. Sometimes I will be able to take a shower without getting hard but by the time I make it to my locker I am. Is there something wrong with me? I never see other guys get hard. I am 21 and gay (of course) I get hard pretty easy and randomly. I know that this happens to young men, but it's been happening to me for 8 years!
2006-10-09 16:58:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Enjoy it. Nothing wrong with enjoying the beauty of another's man body. There is nothing more stimulating than seeing the nude body of a man. Just think, 50 years from now, you'll be looking for that hard on. ....and at the gym, chances are the other guys are enjoying your hard on just as much as you.
2006-10-09 17:01:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
It is not harder, it is just different. The best part of "babyhood" (less than six months) was that where ever I put them, they stayed there. After babyhood, they moved wherever they wanted and got into things. You will spend less time up in the middle of the night and hopefully get more sleep but now your waking hours will be more interesting. I would suggest that you actually get down on the floor and look from the kid's perspective. Make sure everything that he/she can reach is safe, block stairs etc. and then just let them roam (watching them of course). As to tantrums etc., you still have a while. Mine did not start to develop an "attitude" until they were about 18 months. I would strongly suggest that you find a copy of a book called "123 magic". It is a discipline book designed for children under 12 and it works great. It even has worked for my autistic son when nothing else did AND it was very simple to get started. You wont need to start using it for at least a year but it would not hurt to be prepared. Good luck and enjoy. Watching them grow is absolutely the best!
2016-03-18 07:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think of 'Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day' as Austin Powers would. I don't think there is anything wrong with you - you're just very aware of your surroundings so to put it.
I know that I have the same problem but I guess it's different for me because my vagina doesn't spring up on me. I think it's just a sexual urge thing - I'm highly sex needy so it gets me going.
2006-10-09 19:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you're gay...what do you expect....it's like a straight guy showering with a lot of naked broads...he's going to get a hard on too!
2006-10-09 18:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My god the story of my life! You dont have to see to get stimulated, its the idea that, guys are around naked thats getting you a chubby. There's no cure for it I tell you, When you are a young guy anything gets you excited, a glimse or whatever guy sexyness. When older (Im 29) you kind of get over the "Cheap Thrills", no hardwood. Just use your imagination, like taking a towel infront of you where ever you go, putting your peck to the side, what really helped me get rid of surprise chubbies was taking deep breaths makes the blood pump away faster. Recommend it. Good luck, cuz My boo has to do the whole role-playing theatrics to get me horny at 29, sad.
2006-10-09 17:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by zuegma1977 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
relax! it is normal and from what I heard it is something men can't help. I have a 15 yr old son and he is straight, it happenens. It is a natural male reaction. Just hold your toe=wel if you are awkward and take one day a ta time!!
2006-10-09 17:08:32 · answer #6 · answered by maddog1968 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
lol... same here
that's why I either shower with my shorts on (it's less obvious that way... but gets kinda weird), or I dont shower at all...
2006-10-09 18:35:22 · answer #7 · answered by Travis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to think of things that aren't stimulating. there is nothing wrong with you. Just try to take more control. Otherwise just try and enjoy it.
2006-10-09 18:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is a gym where the members are mostly gay, then no problem. If it is a hetero gym, you may want to think about your gramma crapping or something to keep it down. It may be grounds for cancelling your membership.
2006-10-09 17:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Timmers,
Well, I guess that you are Gay! I think that you have a fantasy of an encounter in the locker room. Other men, especially straight ones might have noticed already. As long as you are not beaten up you should be safe.
2006-10-09 17:20:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋