Im a psyco jealous girlfriend HELP!?

Question

I akways think my bf is checking out everygirl...even when he glances at them..I over analyze everthing and think all the time that when he's lookintg at girls hes imaginin ghaving sex with them..I explained it to him and he like cried saying Im crazy and he loves me and thats the most stupid thing hes ever heard. Im so jealous and I hate it..and its driving him crazy..i sleep at his house everynight to make sure hes not watching porn..help! i feel psyco

Answer 1

if he hasn't given you any reason to worry then you shouldn't. try to relax and ignore the other girls. you should try to figure out a way to make yourself feel more secure. maybe start working out more. exercise always makes me feel better. or maybbe buy some clothes that makes you feel sexy or something. he's with you. if he wanted to be with other girls he wouldnt be with you. life is too short to worry about the bad things. you gotta focus on the good in your relationship. and even if he does cheat on you some day it wont be the end of the world. just have fun spending time with him and trust me you'll have nothing to worry about.

Answer 2

youre not psyco!! it really sounds like someone has really hurt you pretty bad in the past, and you havent gotten over the pain of that yet, and you apparently care alot for your bf, and you dont want to lose him!! Just remind your self, that the past is the past and (hopefully) he didnt have anything to do with it! Dont take it out on him! I had the same problem for a long time, and finally it was getting on my nerves too, I stepped back and realized that it was my imagination and slowly it started getting better! Dont let anyone else make you feel like you arent good enough. There are beautiful people out there, and its okay to look as long as that is as far as it goes! Lifes too short to worry about stuff like that!! I hope this gets better!!

Answer 3

Hey sweetie, don't beat yourself up about being so jealous. The more you beat yourself up about it the more your self esteem is affected. Just know that it's totally natural and instead of overreacting when you feel this way, just laugh it off and try to rationalize your thoughts. Every single person in this world has been jealous at some point, so you're definitely not alone. Your bf fell in love with you for the qualities that make up you. This is just one part of your personality that when turned around, makes you a sensitive, caring, down to earth, humble person. Whenever I start feeling this way I always remind myself to get a hobby. Usually when I have too much time on my hands, I worry. Don't let yourself think about it - go out with your friends, go to a gym class or write down your thoughts and read them back. Turn around all this energy in another direction and I promise you'll feel better!

Answer 4

If you do love your bf, chill down. An over jealous gf is like an over-protective mom. You drown the relationship. The guy will end dumping you or hating women. So, control your reactions. What would you do if the situation were the opposite?

Answer 5

Girl you need help! Jealousy will consume you and it sounds like it is well on it's way of doing so. I suggest getting in touch with a counselor or a trusted preacher and his or her spouse. You are not only going to destroy your relationship but your self and possible others in or near the situation.

Get some help, it's ruff at first you've already admitted to the problem so go from there.

Answer 6

First, honey men will ALWAYS look at the menu. Does not mean that they are going to sample anything. I have been married for 18 years and I know he looks at other women, and he knows that I look at other men. We even know that we fantisize about other people, but when it comes right down too it, we both know that we would never cheat on one another and we are with eachother. You know that it's driving him crazy and that WILL drive him away. Who cares if he's watching porn, it's not like he's with her. Get over it. You never know what kind of ideas he maybe getting from those and making life a little better for you. The sooner you come to terms with not all mean are cheaters because they look the sooner your life will improve. It's got to be exhausting to be that insecure all the time.

Answer 7

Hey chicky, dont worry how you are feeling is completely normal but what you have to do is learn to tell yourself NO IM NOT GONNA GET JELOUS OVER THIS COZ ITS STUPID. The fact is that guys do look at other girls, its not their fault because its just in their nature & its completely normal too. Dont you check out other guys? My man looks at other girls & it doesnt bother me coz you cant help but look at someone if they are good looking.. I know I cant help looking at a hot fella doesnt mean Im want to have sex with him. Same goes for your man. They dont think of sex when they look at a chick they are just looking at them as they are. Come one guys dont ever have a lot going through their heads. As for the porn thing, let him watch his porn. I dont mind my man watching it. I mean its not the same as going to a strip club.. its on tv & not in real life so its not as if he can cheat on you with his TV. Its a guy thing.. they are all like that something that was programmed into their brains when they were made. Why dont you watch it with him.. its pretty corny & all the chicks are butt ugly. Dont stress if he says he loves you he obviously means it so stop double guessing him or he will eventually get sick of it. Think - is it really worth risking your relationship over?

Answer 8

I used to be like that until I figured out that I was never truly happy until I found that they were cheating, and then I was unhappy BECAUSE they were cheating - you have to think of it this way - there are a million men out there - you WILL fall in love again if this one screws up and you have to break up with him, but until then just enjoy the time you have together - also make sure he's not watching "porn"? Who cares if he's watching porn - as long as it's not homemade with his ex girlfriend in it! He could never have those women anyway! and he is with you anyway - masturbation is so normal and maybe this makes it better for him - not saying I condone porn or porn stars, but its completely normal - who even cares if he's thinking about someone else while he's "with" you - as long as you are getting the good out of it - It also sounds like maybe you have some self esteem issues and need to spend some time with your friend who make you feel good about yourself and point out your good characteristics

Just think about it - is the world really gonna end tomorrow if he picturres some other girl naked ?

Answer 9

OMG... you just admitted to eating your boogers in public and not caring what people say... does your bf know your eat boogers... this is an obsessive behavoir "OCD"

As for your boyfriend... same thing here... you're obsessed... extremely... you probably need to be medicated for an obsessive compulsive disorder... is there anythin else you obsess about... I'm not writing to be mean... I am sincere here... seems you are experiencing anxiety and low self-esteem... you need some help... there are no words you will read here at Yahoo answers that will help you... please seek a professional.

Answer 10

you are pretty psycho. Myabe there are some insecurities on your part. If you keep acting crazy you are going to drive him away and he will be with another girl. chill out and be secure in your relationship. you do have to trust him, you know. You would not want him to be that way with you. it will become annoying and that is what you are probably becoming to him. P.S guys will look. it does not mean he wants the girl.