How come there's a lot of Married Men with Kids who are actually closeted Gay Men? Is this a Fad?

Answer 1

lol No this isnt a fad. Those men are usually those who have been socially forced into accepting "straight" as the right thing to do.

This is horribly wrong to do. Any one who forces a gay person to be straight is a terrible person.

The closeted gay men are simply repressed. No matter what they do, they can't deny that their turned on by guys. Lets be adults here people, you just can't deny that if your a gay man.

Any way, my message to them is to be who you really are. Bend to no one's will. Bend only to your partner!! lol jk jk

Answer 2

No darling , this IS NOT a fad. Some men feel so much pressure
from friends and family to be "straight". They think that if they marry a woman and have children that their feelings for the same sex will magically go away. THAT IS JUST NOT GONNA HAPPEN. They are what they are !! Men have been trying to
hide being gay since god knows when. Until society changes,
this won't.

Answer 3

in the event that they unknowingly married a closeted guy or woman then definite, i think sorry for them. And definite I do have confidence, or maybe understand some those that have been married and did no longer understand that guy or woman replace into gay. How heart breaking for the couple, yet much extra so for the only that married somebody who wasn't trouble-free with themselves or their better half. Edit: with the aid of the way, i understand extra female that have performed this to adult men than any incorrect way around. L

Answer 4

not a fad, more like a facade. to get anywhere in the business and social world, men have to do as mucha s they can to divert any negative attention to get where they want to be. but that doesn't stop them from wanting to be with men so they have the full life of a "normal' man in a "normal" lifestyle. Marriage, kids, wife that works or always has an apron on that bakes cookies and pancakes, house with the white picket fence... but inside the walk in closet is a nicely greased man waiting to give it to the hubby once the household is asleep. sick, I know....

Answer 5

Sometimes I wonder if it is a fad but apparently it is not. I think a lot of it has to be because you are more aware of the subject and are perhaps surrounded by it more that you previously were.

Answer 6

I have trouble accepting anyone that is gay. Kids or no kids. It seems the world is to liberal and being from the old school of thought, gay people are sick and needs to be treated. It seems to me that, being a real MAN, I have sexual needs and get them fulfilled by a great woman. and it seems that gay men can't get sex from women so they turn to other men with the same problem. losers in your normal sense of the word.

Answer 7

Think of the possibilities... social pressure, realizing AFTER marriage, doing someone a favor if they really wanted a kid... I dunno. Personally, I DO think it contributes too much to the heteroheinosity of the world. People just shouldn't get married in general... or they should do it just for the benefits, which is what I plan to do. I'll marry a really hot gay guy, and we can bring tricks home! lol

Answer 8

it is common and have for over a hundred years....they are bi sexual and prefer men but for a million reasons they remain with their wife and family....and have a side relationship with their boyfriend. i can tell you that many women do the same thing...in the 60's people started "outing" and being more open....yet even now some choose not to become open about their personal lifes, for many reasons...

Answer 9

i know someone who was married and had kids, and years later, he left her for a man.....and hes been with this same man for atleast 10 years...why? that's horrible. For her it was.

Answer 10

Im not sure what it is but i know several of them. probably too many