aiight me and my bootycall see each other once in a while just for sex and this time she wanted somethign bigger so we went to the store and purchsed a 8" and 2"wide cyber sking dong ....neways she loves it doggy style so after i beat it up and after were done she bends over to get her clothes and then {SCREEEMZZ} to the top of her lungs.... so i turned around like wtf! then i see she seems to be in pain then i ask her if shes OK and she said "NO" she could stand up straight so i help her get up and she attemps to walk and slowly with a limp and just the look in her face i knew she was in tremendous pain....i said to myself "dang how many time we've been doing this" so give her a vicodine thinking its a pulled muscle and 15 minutes lates she tell s me to take her to the hospital so i did after telling her to let the vicodine kick-in... so i dropped her off in ER (i know it was wrong of me leaving her there but i didnt want the doctors to look at me as if i was some sort of monster or something.....i dont understand because when i was beating it up i was gentle about it until she told me to go deeper) and told her to call me so i can pick her up so 2 hours later she did and i took her home all that turned out to be that her disc in her back gave out and now she need 2-4 weeks bedrest and possible thearphy........so was it my fault her back gave out or is that something that mess up in the body within time because i cant sleep over this thinking its my fault.....................
2006-10-09 16:18:15 · 21 answers · asked by L3ZBiiAN SW33TZ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Disks go out suddenly, my sister was simply getting out of the shower and hers went out and she went down in horrendous pain. No warning.
I don't think what you were doing had anything to do with it, other than maybe the position, but the same position can be perfectly fine other times.
However, and I know you don't want to be lectured but I'm a mom and its my job. If you are going to play then you must take responsibility for your partner. Don't ever dump and run off and leave someone in that situation again. The ER staff doesn't care about your sexuality unless you were abusing her. Consensual sex play is not abuse. Send her some flowers and apologize for being a coward.
2006-10-10 01:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not your fault at all hunny. It would simple seem that during sex she has put her back in a position to long and when she bent over to get her clothes she has just slip her disc. It's nothing major at all. Go to bed and get some well deserved sleep darl.
2006-10-09 18:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nerves and the body ARE a strange creature. You haven't done anything wrong, just be more gentle next time. Some times all it takes is to bend over and pick up a paperclip.
2006-10-09 16:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by crystal89431 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You must've known that there is hell of a difference between an artificial dong and that of a man. You can't expect the same service from or reaction to their doing the act. Even most monstrous of the d*cks won't have made that mess-up as there is love and care of a man behind it whereas the artificial stuff is as devoid of emotions as is its holder at the moment. Be natural next time. Doggystyle won't hurt you, only you might feel more b'tchy with it.
2006-10-09 16:51:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Sounds like she may have done something that might have started to push the disc out. Late when the two of you were together, you should ask if ther was any kind of activity that she did, and if she felt pain after. Before your time together.
2006-10-09 16:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by Tommy 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have had surgury on discs and it was common for me! It is normal if I am overly wanting passion but it wouldn't hurt to help keep her in check as to the limits you can go. she will be mad but you wont feel guilty and if she insists just be gentle and watch for signs that she maybe strssing cuz of her back. If she is anyting like me though the feeling you get at the time outways the the suffering we endure!!
2006-10-09 17:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by maddog1968 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
it wasnt ur fault, i once put my back out getting doggied, i sort of bent my back in a strange way, it happens to the best of us lol
oh by the way, rnt those cyber skin vibs AMAZING!! I just got my first one recently
2006-10-09 20:44:52 · answer #7 · answered by livachic2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not your fault you said she bent over to pick up her clothes that's when she slipped the disc so stop worrying and go she her and look after her some x
2006-10-09 17:44:21 · answer #8 · answered by charlie! 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Cyberskin has a powdery rubber feel to it, possible alergic reaction? Dont tell me you put it in dry? Yeah her back was already damage, so many poundings! Tenderised ***, anyone?
2006-10-09 16:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by zuegma1977 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Next time. Let her do it to you and see how it feels ending up in the ER.
Perv.
2006-10-09 18:07:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋