never had that happen but how would you deal with it?
2006-10-09 16:16:25 · 34 answers · asked by nakita 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Not that I'm aware of.
2006-10-09 16:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. My soon to be ex-wife. We were married 13 years and she cheated all along. Why I stayed... well I could go into long details and many, many excuses, but it all came down to this, we have 4 children together. That's was the main thing. I dealt with it because I had to know I did everything I could do to keep the family together. I worked harder and kept the faith. It all ended when she finally had me removed from my house...imagine that? How it all happened I am still not sure but in all truth I feel re leaved. I feel as if a ton has been lifted off of me. Do I hate her? Yes. the pain the mistrust the lies of course I do. But I know in my heart and mind I DID ALL I COULD DO. You truly have no choice when the other person dose what they do. You can only control yourself. I didn't cheat in return because I did feel that justified any thing. So a year later I have found a wonderful person and I am still alive and life is good. "What" that dose not kill you only makes you stronger.
2006-10-09 17:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let me start at the beginning.......In 1991 I married a man that I had known all my life.We were married for 9 years.I had kids from a previous marriage(3 girls)that he instantly became a "daddy" to.WE had a perfect life for 8 years.He was a musician.He is a songwriter and lead singer of a band.He has a CD out now.While we were still together one of his old highschool buddies(female) showed up. She started coming around all the time.She wanted to help him build a website.About 2 months later things started to go bad.4 months later he woke me up to say"I don't think we're gonna make it'. He wanted a divorce.I was devestated.My girl's were devestated.He's with her now.You asked have you ever been cheated on.YES I have.How to deal with it, I don't know, I'm still dealing with it.All I know is it can hurt you.It can hurt you hard.I had fever blisters and my back actually went out that morning he told me it was over.I guess it was stress and tention.I hope you never go through that kind of heartache.I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.Except maybe her.Good Luck in life and love and always remember, YOU are what YOU have to believe in and you can make it through anything.
2006-10-09 16:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most definitely. It was my husband of 19 yrs
It was a painful discovery but no matter what, it is not the end of the world. I would need to move on and this is exactly what i am doing. Get the divorce and move on.
2006-10-10 00:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by DiL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A hack is pretty much cheating. Once while playing America's Army, Someone hacked the official U S Army server and started typing in admin messages "Don't mind me, I am just testing my beta hack." When people started threatening him with a ban, he just replied, " Doesn't matter, this is my second account".
It was funny though. I don't get "cheated" at much.
2006-10-09 16:38:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh yeah, been there and done that. I found out from a friend that another friend was being with my man behind my back. I let them both have it. I dumped him. That is really the only way to handle that situation.
2006-10-09 19:32:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex was engaged before he confessed to me that it was over. I found out when he stood me up on my birthday. What an ***. However, without this situation, I don't think I would have appreciated my wonderful, now husband, as much. I was attracted to the "bad boys" and my ex cured that. I love my husband and he is the best thing that ever happened to me. Sometimes I actually think about sending a thank you note to my ex and his now ex wife thanking them.
2006-10-09 16:25:47 · answer #7 · answered by BarkFitness Pet Sitting 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yup. I dumped them. If they need more than I can give them, then they are free to pursue. But not while they are with me. To me it shows weakness. I have plenty to offer in every way and if that's not enough then I'm not the woman for them. If I cant trust them to be faithful then I will never be able to trust them for anything important.
2006-10-09 17:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It broke my heart. I left. About 2 years later God put a WONDERFUL man in my life. There are no words to express how happy I am today.
2006-10-09 16:18:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, first husband...I didn't know until after the divorce.
Yes, a boyfriend...I walked in on him with someone.
Both times were eons ago but now I would handle it with a big stick and a slamming of the door after the beating.
2006-10-09 16:20:22 · answer #10 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would break up with the person even if they seem to show remorse, because once it is done it has the possibility to be done twice. And it would be a lot of insecurity.
2006-10-09 17:22:41 · answer #11 · answered by sugar507 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋