2006-10-09 16:11:00 · 13 answers · asked by pink79 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i am man, and i hate going to a strip club.
2006-10-09 16:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because their dongs are bigger than their brains!!
I go through the same thing with my husband (except it's not strip clubs, it's porn) and although it annoys the hell out of me, it's just a stupid guy thing and there really isn't anything we can do about it.
If you were absolutely perfect in every way, he still would look at other women. Try not to take it personally or feel insecure about it (easier said than done), and whatever you do, do not compare yourself to those strippers. Guys have this "fantasy" thing when it comes to untouchable women, but it doesn't mean he loves you any less.
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2006-10-09 16:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by sweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know... my husband doesnt go though. Some times he teases me and is like "ohh for my birthday im gonna go to a strip club"... then I will say something like "Okay, but maybe one day in about 18 years, you will go and Haley (our daughter) will be working there." then he either says something "funny" or he says he's just kidding. We just like teasing each other like that. He has never actually been though and tells me he really doesnt have intrest in going (hopefully, he is telling the truth). I think he doesn't have intrest in going --- because his mom works at a strip joint and when you connect your mother to a strip club... you get a little grossed out. LOL.
2006-10-09 16:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a part of it is because they still desire something that evidently their beautiful girlfriend does not posses. Not that they're unhappy with their partner, but more along the lines of curiosity. Wondering if there is more that they could possibly have but don't have at the moment. What I mean is, people in general, male or female don't know exactly what they have until they're either going to lose it or usually when something traumatic happens enough to open their eyes to what really is in front of them. Men in this case don't usually realize the treasure they have till someone tries to steal it from them or they simply lose it.
2006-10-09 16:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by philosophy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Low morals? Lack of respect for women? Insecure about his sexuality so has to prove himself by paying women? Desensitizes to the meaning of intimacy? Somewhat perverted? Likes to pretend he's a man but hasn't grown up yet? Because his beautiful girlfriend stays with him afterwards for some odd reason?
(PS No men I know ever go to strip clubs.)
2006-10-09 16:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Strip clubs have nothing to do with girlfriends, wives, etc., it's a place where guys can be guys, the naked women are just window dressing.
2006-10-09 16:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because it makes them feel like men. It's where the 'guys' go to show how they are still in control of themselves and not 'whipped' by their woman. Try going with him one time and you'll feel better. Usually the strippers will pay more attention to the girl than the guy.
2006-10-09 16:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by belleebuttons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They frequent those kinds of places because they have sexual addictions. (fantasy sex, etc.) They start it and won't or can't stop. That is why it is best never to get into the porn scene. I know this is not a popular answer but it is what it is.
2006-10-09 16:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by Just me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a good question??? Hmmmm? I guess they want to see more than one girl "getting it on"...just the "trill of it"..
Heck..I have been to them to..I have been with my husband; is there anything wrong that? We "had a good time later"...lol.
2006-10-09 16:16:54 · answer #9 · answered by sdrose17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are insecure and not happy at home.
2006-10-09 16:43:57 · answer #10 · answered by mergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋