is it safe and enjoyable to masterbate? Is it wrong? I want to know because I do it and want to make sure that I am not the only one? Please let me know. I am a female and I am 28 yrs old. so if you can help me out this is the first time I admitted that i do this. thank you
2006-10-09 15:52:56 · 17 answers · asked by Life S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
what if i just keep it to myself and don't tell my boyfriend. i mean we have our time, but i enjoy myself when i am alone. i feel that is my time. is that ok too?
2006-10-09 16:24:42 · update #1
is it bad if you start bleeding during masturbation?
2006-10-09 18:17:52 · update #2
No it's not wrong, it's only natural . It is safe and very pleasurable , it can be better than having sex . I do it to releive stress and tention . Don't be embarrassed by asking , better to ask , then never finding out the truth about something . There are all kinds of toys you can get to help , you can discretely buy them online , in case you would be embarrassed to go to one of those kind of stores ......Good-Luck and Hugs from Texas
2006-10-09 16:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by jacks_girl618 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Safe, enjoyable and in my opinion it's better than sleeping around. I don't think it's wrong, and heck, woman, sometimes it's a great stress relief. I'm 28 as well, and HAVE a man who pleases me very much ... and I STILL do it just for GP. And trust me - you're far from the only woman who does it. Nothing to be ashamed of, you know what you like, right? I could give you the top ten reasons to be your own lover, but I've already dangnear written a novel here as it is.
2006-10-09 23:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by Ma'êšeeonáhe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life S,
It's totally fine to masturbate, actually its sciencetifically proven that you need to masturbate. Life S, I masturbate all the time, atleast once a week minimum. Unless your religion condemns the enjoyment of masturbation, then it's an issue to bring up with your religion, but sciencetifically, masturbation is a requirement to live.
I have I'm 21 and I masturbate too, so no worries. In fact, most guys like girls that masturbate because it makes them feel comfortable too. So you're doing yourself more good than you think. Hope this helps.
2006-10-09 22:59:24 · answer #3 · answered by dukeofhmong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It always shocks me to hear of people that don't know that is really healthy and perfectly fine to masturbate. Seriously, everyone I know does it, I've done it since a very young age, and everything I've ever read in my pre-med classes and so forth say that it is perfectly normal and good to do. 90-something% of the population does it (and the rest lie about it, haha)... or maybe the rest just have problems, like are crippled or have severe depressing or something, but yes, it is normal and good to do. It can be very relaxing as well and help to reduce stress.
Keep it up and don't be ashamed or embarrassed!
2006-10-09 22:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural and normal. Even though most won't admit it, everyone has done it. As well as the pleasure you receive from it you are also learning about your own body. What you like or dislike, etc. which in turn is knowledge that you can pass on to your partner making your sexual relationship much better for the both of you.
2006-10-09 23:02:26 · answer #5 · answered by cookiefactory4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal human behavior, especially if you are not in a relationship with anyone. (However, I've been married 19+ years and I STILL masturbate - in fact, it seems the more I pleasure myself, the more I want to have sex with my husband as well....go figure...)
Shoot, we talked about this at a women's Bible study when I was 20 years old.....a couple of people thought it was wrong, but most people thought it was important to explore/get to know their bodies (especially since most of them were virgins when they got married - how ELSE are you going to know how your body reacts/what you like to have done to receive pleasure?). I figure, there is no other biological reason for women to have a clitoris other than the ability to reach orgasm.....just my opinion....!
p.s. Why are so many women afraid of their sexuality?
2006-10-09 23:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by voycinwilderness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's perfectly natural. You should watch "Talk sex with sue" on the Oxygen channel you will learn a lot of good information about sex in general. I think it show on Sunday nights. You're ok trust me.
2006-10-09 22:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by kiki87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not wrong- for boys or girls. Whats wrong is when its discussed like sneezing or something. Its a private personal choice and natural.Its good and enjoyable. Or for you and someone to watch...
2006-10-09 22:55:47 · answer #8 · answered by ARTmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's the best way to figure out the way you 'tick' sexually. Usually it's religious attitudes that make us feel guilty for it, but God created our bodies, including the many ways we experience pleasure.
Have at it. Figure out what works for you. It will enrich your sexual experiences with others.
2006-10-09 23:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is safe. and no it is not wrong. every one does it. some just does not admit it. it is perfectly normal. they all do it at one point in time. they can't lie. ya know?
2006-10-09 22:55:39 · answer #10 · answered by Melinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋