But I think or have a fair idea that she likes me. I'm not what other people think. I wouldn't even think about doing it. I can wait for a while or a long time.
2006-10-09 15:50:40 · 53 answers · asked by annapaquin2006 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If you are 26 and are attracted to a 15 year old, you need help! No amount of waiting time is sufficient. Try meeting someone your own age. Guys like you are the reason us fathers shelter our young daughters so much. Grow up and try an older WOMAN. Not an innocent vulnerable 15 year old CHILD!
2006-10-09 16:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
You can wait until she's legal, at which point she'll probably have forgotten all about you (ever hear of a "schoolgirl crush?"), or you can get your act together and find someone who is actually eligible. Technically speaking, the girl in question is a CHILD. And I know guys who have done time for statutory rape, even though they swore they wouldn't even think about doing "it." The real question isn't whether or not anyone can help you. It's whether or not you're man enough to know the difference between love and pedophilia.
2006-10-09 18:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by Akuseru 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you first of all. Hopefully not old enough to be her grandpa old. LOL JK I would really think about it if I were you. She is only 15 she doesn't know what she wants. What if one day something were to happen and she gets pregnant then what? A baby having a baby, Wait till she at least finishes high school by then she should be a little more stable to make a choice
2006-10-09 18:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother-in-law is 45, he is dating a 16 year old.... My views on that are personal and so would be everybody elses... But anyhow...
If you do not engage in a sexual relationship, but keep things purely on conversational basis (you both must learn to refrain), then there is no harm. In any case, it takes quite a while to get to know somebody and thats how it should be, before taking things further. More people should wait.
2006-10-11 03:15:25 · answer #4 · answered by ribena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are 18 under fair enough u know the law! so it's up to u if your 20 - 22, wait just be her friend and develop a relationship very slowly the girl is too young mentally and physically!! even though she might not show it, if your older you need help because it's simply gross and not far from paedophillia!! sorry but true.
2006-10-10 11:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, wait several (preferably 3) years to date her. Or just move on and find someone else. At 15 she's not prepared for much of a commitment anyways, not matter how she thinks she feels. I always felt like I was ready for a commitment when I was young - but I wasn't.
2006-10-09 15:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by twisteddistance 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ya know you should talk this over with her,and decide what options you too have and how long shes willing to wait, cause ya really dont want to get into any trouble. i was 15 when i got with my husband who was 23 then, we've been married for 4 1/2yrs now, im 21 hes 28, but our flame has not faded at all. so it works out for some people but if her parents are protective, then thats a whole other story.but i cant say nothing cause we're protective over our two kids.
2006-10-09 17:08:02 · answer #7 · answered by nicky l 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't say how old you are.
If you are over twenty leave the girl to get on with her life.
She is only a child with her whole life infront of her let her live it.
You say you can wait well then wait wait untill she is in her twenties by then she should know what she wants from life or atleast have an idea.
Please for her sake if you do realy like her as a person Leave her alone.
2006-10-09 15:57:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It says in your profile that you're 26. Unless you've never left your mother's home and have had zero life experiences, you don't have a hope in hell of having a real emotional connection with this child. As you've said you're happy to keep it in your pants, an emotional connection is the best you could hope for. Honestly, what are you going to talk about?! The latest boy bands? Tracy Beaker?
Leave her alone unless you have a pressing desire to have 'kiddy-fiddler' spray-painted on your front door.
2006-10-09 16:28:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Then wait the three years if you really like her that much in the mean time date women your own age and maybe you'll find a healthy relationship and as will she and nobody gets hurt or worse goes to jail a gets pumped up the whoo whoo.
2006-10-09 16:12:16 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Butler ♥2 B♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋