my ex-friend said she was cuzins with this extremly cute guy.
I asked him, and he said it wasn't true , and that he doesn't even like her and he doesn't talk 2 her and he's scared of her. He also said I was stupid 4 being her friend. shes telling people shes going 2 kick my *** cuz i'm lying. what can i do 2 make her understand that he said that and I didn't make it up, and i've never lied 2 her , so i don't know why she would say that.
2006-10-09 15:43:55 · 27 answers · asked by mary 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my friends who talk 2 him have told her, but she so f*****g stupid, she cn't get it through her big a** head, and i haven't bin her friend for 3 months due 2 her constant lying.
2006-10-09 15:49:27 · update #1
i dont want her 2 kick his a**, i like him, and he is willing 2 tell her
2006-10-09 15:51:04 · update #2
he's not imature, actually he is very sweet and kind.
2006-10-09 15:54:06 · update #3
their is no way i will be her friend again
I caught that b***h trying 2 jack my stuff
2006-10-09 16:06:03 · update #4
everyone (even her "cuzin") is telling me she's just jeoluse of me is it true?
2006-10-09 16:13:31 · update #5
I would just tell her
"Look, I can't make you believe what I'm saying, I know that. But what do I have to gain by making all of this up? It would be so much easier at this point to tell you it was all a lie, if it was. But, it isn't. You can choose to believe me, and we can get along, or you can choose to think I am lying and we can go our separate ways. I don't want to fight with you. You know me well enough to know I don't like confrontation, so I would never have started something like this."
2006-10-09 15:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by Shaken Not Stirred 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I had something like that happen to me a few years ago and I will tell you some friends can give you bad reps. So he was not lieing about that. If he is a cute guy more less he is probably giving you some good advice to stay away from her. You know if she is coming off to you like that then she uses her ability to scare people as a defence. Think about it how many fights has she actually gotten into? I know a few girls that were like that in High School and the girls that tried to appoligise were the ones that they would bully on the most. Tell her loud and clear look I did not say anything it was ( his name ) that said it. Go ask him for your self and go with her. Let her know that you are not going to back down to her.
2006-10-09 15:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by DeborahUlloa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her to talk to the guy. If she is a real friend she would believe what you say. She sounds like the type of person that makes up things to get attention. If you become friends with her again don't try confirming things she says by asking the person she is talking about. It's always best to think about what you say or do before you do it. It doesn't sound like she is someone you could trust. If you are in high school I don't believe there are any real friends in high school (maybe one) it's all a popularity contest. In the end just tell her to ask the guy to tell her what you said and he said. He will probably tell her the truth since he doesn't like her. If she wants to fight you anyway hit her first.
2006-10-09 15:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by SS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should confront her in front of everybody and make her feel so embarrassed that she will run home and never think about threatening you every again. Tell that guy to straight up tell everyone including her that they are not related in any way so she won't want to kick your *** anymore but kick his? Or just run home crying. Either way your off the hook.
2006-10-09 15:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by Liliac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her to stop being immature first off. and tell her to ask the guy if the things he said were true. plus why would she "like this cute guy" if they are cousins!!! thats a little gross.... this should be between you "ex friend" and her soo called "cousin". tell both of them to stop being immature and have them sort it out. what e could ahve told you coulf have been a lie, what she told you could have been a lie so who can you believe? its up to them. and tell you old friend not to act all tough and how shes going to kick your ***.....thats extremely immature. Im sure both of you are alot smarter than to duke it out at school and whatnot. lol thers somehting called talking that will resolve this.
but i would just forget about your ex friend, if she cant handle the truth then oh well...
2006-10-09 15:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's probably mad because she got caught up(she was lying) and she wants to blame the situation on someone else. And that guy is right you are stupid for being her friend. Look at what she's doing. Don't waste your time on dumb people or dumb situations either. You have better things to worry about...don't you?
2006-10-09 15:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try to tell her again that you have never lied to her and never will but this guy said this and that she has to believe you. If she was a true friend she would believe u
2006-10-09 15:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are two ways in solving this problem:
1- have the guy go up to her in front of others and tell her what he said about her lies
2- call him in front of her without him knowing and have him tell you over the phone while on speakers. That way she can hear everything and know that you didn't say it.
2006-10-09 15:54:21 · answer #8 · answered by osito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one element you doing is you're being a pal to somebody who gets on your nerves. stop being his buddy and picture approximately why you 2 are not together in the 1st place. you do not ought to call him, text textile him or digital mail him, make a sparkling break from him. there is not any rule asserting which you ought to be advantageous on your ex.
2016-10-19 03:01:41 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find some way for HIM to get the guts to tell her that you wer`nt liying after that she will never think your lieing agian
and you`ll be friends agan
a little miss understanding is nothing to lose a friendship over
2006-10-09 15:47:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋