I was helping my fiance with his myspace webpage, because his messages aren't showing up. I went to sent messages and there was a message sent to a girl that said I'm new to this site and would like to chat so let me know if you do. He swore up and down that he did not send it. But I find it hard to believe, it was sent the only night that I had to work this week, and who else would of sent it. Am I being paranoid? Should I just let it go?
2006-10-09 15:40:41 · 16 answers · asked by farmergyrl23 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hmm...yeah it sounds that he regrets it now. but i think that he did sent the email. that doesnt mean that he had sexual intentions though. i would suggest you to go and talk to him and let him know that you dont care for the fact that he sent an email to a girl but the fact that he lied to you and didnt admit that he did sent an email(the receipient does not matter)...it is disrespectull towards you. he doesnt have to lie for things like that..explain him that how can you trust him if he lies for small things?what if something serious happen...then you wont be able to believe him..good luck...!(let us know how it went!)
2006-10-09 15:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by behonest 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you should absolutely not let it go. He is trying to cheat on you through the internet? Talk about a low down dog, with a mixture of a computer nerd? Ifhit wasn't him, who on earth could it be? The scary aliens that have been secretly logging onto his myspace account? Yea right. That was one of the lamest excuses i've every heard and you about to buy it? Cmon girl! Think about it. There's obivously something fishy up in here and it aint your cooch. Roll up his maxim magizine and smack that sucker upside his head!
2006-10-09 15:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by Liliac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is SO busted!
Messages don't write themselves. I can understand receiving unsolicited messages from others, but outbound is a whole other story.
Confront him and make him squirm until he admits the truth. Then forgive him and make him promise never to do it again.
Sometimes people get bored and stupid. A single incident is not worth a split-up unless he crossed a physical line, or is unwilling to change his behavior.
Good luck.
2006-10-09 15:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not being paranoid. Guys like playing that game (making you think youre paranoid) to get you off their back. Its common sense, i assume only the 2 of you know the password to the page. Dont let it slide.
2006-10-09 15:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by drummer.luver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when you gut instinct tells you something, you are right. Don't be paranoid, but don't let it totally go. Keep your eyes open. Don't bury your head in the sand. See if it occurs again.
2006-10-09 15:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by Author Al 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that he sent it, who else would have. I wouldn't get to upset about it, it's not like you actually caught him with another woman. I would tell him that you do not feel comfortable with him talking to other females online.
2006-10-09 15:44:14 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew the answer before reading the details. Liar! If he would do such a thing and then on top of it lie abut it, he can't be trusted. Good luck.
2006-10-09 15:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this he sent it. Messages dont get sent unless you use the keypad. its kid of funny how those messages pop up out of thin air hes got you fooled.
2006-10-09 15:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its a FORSURE thing he is lying. And everything falls into place doesnt it? You better check his page but dont let him know you do. Make it seem like you let it go but secretly check his myspace. YOU KNOW HE'S LYING!
2006-10-09 15:43:50 · answer #9 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sent it. he's just lying. should you let it go. only you can decide. he may of just been trying to have some fun on the net or he could possibly cheat on you only you can decide
2006-10-09 15:46:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋