2006-10-09 15:32:31 · 26 answers · asked by BOOBOOCAKES13 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I was 20 years old when my daughter was born. My Mom wasn't mad or anything, she was just kind of sad for me because I was in college and stuff, living on my own, and stuff. Doing stuff I really liked. She said that no one would think bad of me if I considered adoption, because it's really respectable. But I was so happy I was pregnant buy the time I told her (I was 4 months). But when I told her I was happy, she was happy to, she said that she always wanted to be a grandma. The reason she was sad was because she was worried about my feelings. Not everyone has it that smooth either. It helped to that my Mom loved my boyfriend (Husband of 2 years now).
2006-10-09 15:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by twisteddistance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell pregnant at 16, and my relationship with my mother wasn't very good, she kicked me out when I was 15. I was told by everybody to have an abortion and I knew that it wasn't an option. My relationship got better with my mother as she didn't want to miss out on her grandchildren, When I fell pregnant was the first time we spoke in nearly 2 years, She was there at my 18 week scan and found out the baby had died at 13 weeks. She helped me through the D&C.
I had my son when I was 17 and she was there but the father of my son was a idiot and we broke up when my son was 4 months old I left as I knew I had to think about my son before me and his protection was more inportant. This was the first time I did anything I just knew was right because it was for the safty of my son. I felt like I had a reason to live and be the best I could be, to give my son the best I could. When my son was 8 months I met my now husband and we have the happily ever after story. I never imagioned I would have all I have and see myself as been lucky. But I do know I wouldnt be here if I hadn't had my son.
Now my son is 4 and he has a sister who is 2 and another baby brother on the way.
2006-10-09 22:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by mj_missi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 20 and going to have my first (a girl!) next month! I am excited by it. I always wanted to be a mom. I used to want six kids... but, now that I am pregnant, I have a feeling that this might be my only child. LOL. I don't think I can handle more. I am also married... have been since I was 18. At first, I was scared. I was in total disbelief when I saw the test come back positive. It was in the bathroom at KMart too, where I took the test. LOL. I was just beginning my shift there (I was supervisor there). I was completely nervous the whole work day!!! It was like an eight hour shift and I was just going through the whole day, in between each customer thinking "Oh my god, I'm pregnant." I was soooo scared of going home and telling my mom (my husband and I live with my parents because living expenses here in south florida are RIDICULOUS!) So... I told my mom as soon as I got home. She was the only one home at the time. First thing out of her mouth was "stupid stupid stupid". I just looked at her and busted out in tears. Then she hugged me and said "but its okay." (She had my sister when she was 17 so she didnt have much to say). Then my husband got home.... LOL. He was like "Nuh uh! You're lying! OMG NOOOO!" but, he got over it. Then my dad got home and my mom told him. Surprisingly, he said "Well... congratulations." I thought he would be mad... I was amazed that he wasn't. But, everythings worked out fine so far and I wouldn't take back this pregnancy if I had the chance. It's a wonderful experience. I just can't wait to hold my little girl for the first time.
2006-10-09 22:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 17 2 days befor I turned 18 I am now 24 and my parents still don't talk to me because I didn't have an abortion, the relation ship and love that I have with my child is more than I could ask for and would not change it for anything, I was very scared, but we are doing great, I am now married and expection number 2 any day now, it is my parents loss.
2006-10-09 22:37:00 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer Dalpe 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I had my 10 month old daughter 9 days after I turned 24 years old.I was happy,scared,nervous. My parents were happy. I am currently 22 weeks pregnant with my second child and I will give birth about 2 months after I turn 25 years old. I was happy but not to thrilled about having my children that close in age.
2006-10-10 09:16:14 · answer #5 · answered by Dixie H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 22 when I had my first. I was so excited, but also scared. My dad knew before I did. He said for weeks before we knew that I was pregnant. I still don't know how he knew. My mom had mixed emotions. See my husband is 6'9", and I am all of 5'3", so she was worried the baby would be too big. But she was excited.
By the way the baby wasn't big, she weighted 7 lbs 4.2 oz, our second was also a girl, 7 lbs 2.4 oz, and our third is due at the end of March. Hopefully we find out thursday what we are having! If the baby cooperates!
2006-10-09 22:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by tnmomof2as 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you marred or not I was 21 when my wife had our first child she was 21 all so and we were to young need to have your life planed first cant do it any younger cant get your education a good job a house or your life planed out so if you are not don't before you get old enough and the parents needed to say something before hand now is to late.
2006-10-09 22:40:05 · answer #7 · answered by Douglas R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 20 and my parents were okay cause I was no longer living with them and have never went back now I am 26 with 3.
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2006-10-09 23:47:17 · answer #8 · answered by Atlanta's Finest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 22, I have been married for 2 and a half years and I am pregnant with my first. My mom was disappointed at first because she wanted me to experience more before I had a baby. Now she couldn't be more excited. She is going nuts with anticipation. I am excited scared but excited. I know I have a great husband to help me. I don't think I could do it with out his support.
2006-10-09 22:39:37 · answer #9 · answered by ebsharer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 28 and had been trying for some years. I was glad to finally have a child. He's 20 years old now and the joy of my life.
2006-10-09 22:46:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋