2006-10-09 15:31:58 · 16 answers · asked by gailj1800@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I guess if you know she's always been spoiled and living with you, the tension shouldn't be a big surprise. Your spouse created this problem, so your spouse will have to resolve it. Sorry.
2006-10-09 15:37:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your 25 year old stepdaughter is way past living at home. She needs to get her own place, asap. That is your home, not hers. If mommy is taking your stepdaughter's side then you have a real problem. You need some intervention if that is the case. No one should come between and man and wife not even a child, but even at a young age children learn to divide and conquer mom and dad so they can get their own way. Mom needs to realize this. Talk to her and I do wish you the best.
2006-10-09 22:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by Just me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she has a job encourage her to open up a bank account and save money. Ask her if she wants you to put aside some money for her nest. She is way to old and needs to flawk the nest. Sounds as though she is waiting for a man to get her out and we never know what lies ahead of us. Have her go shopping with you and pick out somethings for her apartment. Start looking for apts with her. Do not be mean about it be caring and loving about it. Talk to your husband first on this plan before you start it.
2006-10-09 22:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a talk with your husband about this. She needs to get a job (if she doesn't have one already) and move out. She can't live with daddy forever. You guys need some alone time for yourselves without someone being in the house all the time.
2006-10-09 22:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
25 is a bit old to be at home, what is her reason for being there? Even if she is an adult, there still has to be some ground rules and if her parent cannot adhere to them, then she needs to go stay with the other one!
2006-10-09 22:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by babydoll121070 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hard luck, my step'mother' had me deported at 19, if only I'd have been 25 (her 26) I would have had the where with all to outsmart her, mine used to take a lot of Excedrin for the tension, hopefully that will turn out to cause something.
2006-10-09 22:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk with your husband, there isn't much you can do yourself and 2 women in the house will always endup with tension due to the competition.
You may even have to "lay down the law" with him because of it.
and ask her to leave.
Why is she still at home anyway? she is old enough to fend for herself unless he has made her dependent on him.
Its time she grew up anyway.
2006-10-09 22:36:23 · answer #7 · answered by smkwtrjck 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a talk with your spouse and let him know how you feel, she is a grown women and should be out on her own letting her father live his life.
2006-10-09 22:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by Teaza19 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to have a talk with your spouse and let them know what you see and ask if that is what the other person see's?
communication is the best way. if you hold it inside of you one day you will burst out and explode
good luck
2006-10-09 22:33:38 · answer #9 · answered by Antonio 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its called das boot kick her out god she is 25 if she is not handicapped in any way show her the door trust me that's how i got rid of mine and they are thanking me for it cause they have learned what it takes to live in the real world and what it costs to have others live off of them
2006-10-09 22:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by dragonotdo12000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋