we all have at some point in our lives..............not that every man would even notice one if it happened to them! ha ha ha
2006-10-09 15:30:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No need to. Sometimes I just don't.
2006-10-09 15:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by fiestyredhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but here's a male perspective. I can spot a fake one from a mile away. No woman can fake it by raising her body temp, causing the damp skin on her lower back / between her breasts, increased heart rate, and simultaneous, pulsed contractions in "all the right places (I can think of at least three places to feel the tell-tale *pulse*)". My wife would never fake it, because she thoroughly enjoys letting me know what she likes, and I love the challenge of doing what works for her! That's what makes it so hot... Just communicate, and let the guy know what does, or doesn't work. If he can't handle that, then you need someone more "talented"... And you wouldn't need to worry about whether or not to fake it!!!
2006-10-09 16:04:55 · answer #2 · answered by JB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did years ago, it made it easier. But now I have a relationship in which we are honest with each other, and we're both perfectly ok when the other says "it's just not gonna happen tonight babe." We know it's not a reflection on our performances, sometimes people are too tired, or sore, or whatever. If you always fake it, your guy will never learn what you like.
2006-10-09 16:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by kameka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I've been married 5 /2 years, dating 9 yrs with 2 kids. yes I fake it. I hate to say it but I do. In all that time I've told my husband what I like or don't and well it just doesn't matter much to him so I don't say much anymore, and don't want to tell him no all the time either, I know he has his needs too. Sometimes it's easier just to fake it and get it done with! That sounds horrible I know! Sometimes that's just the way it is!
2006-10-09 16:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is funny about your question is that you honestly think you are holding the cards. When you make the comment that we wouldn't notice, what you should realize is that we don't really care. Men don't fake orgasms because we don't have to, we get ours just about 99.9% of the time. So fake away sweetie, maybe the next guy you "fake out" will care.
2006-10-09 15:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by shushbush 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
After faking for the first year of marriage, my hubby taught me something valuable: he enjoys it more when I do. So aside from the jerk who represents the a-holes who don't care, a good guy does want to know. A REAL man will rise to the challenge and be really pleased with himself when he makes you scream for REAL. If you're willing to be honest; it's totally worth it to get through the awkward part where you have to spell it out for him!
2006-10-09 15:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes i do, specially when im not in the mood and they are not doing anything to get me in the mood.....you may be surprised about 70% of the women, we do fake an orgasm from time to time.
And talking about my own experience, he has never found out that is a fake orgasm..........sorry guys.
2006-10-09 16:30:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would rather work with him to tell him and show him what I need to have an orgasm. My experience is that he is more than willing to do what I need. Then we're both happy!
2006-10-09 17:07:40 · answer #8 · answered by bobbie jo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not worth the effort to fake it. Besides if you do , how will he ever change and learn how to satisfy you. Your only cheating yourself by faking. I won't give him the satisfaction of thinking he satisfied me when he didn't. Why would any of you do that.
2006-10-09 15:35:39 · answer #9 · answered by joy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honestly i have never faked one, if they suck in bed they will know it because i just lay there and am quiet, i could never fake it and give them a false sense of being good in bed.
2006-10-09 15:38:37 · answer #10 · answered by sweet serinity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way would I ever fake it. It will only hurt me. I would want my husband to know exactly what does it for me and he does.
2006-10-09 15:33:38 · answer #11 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋