My husband and I and our 2 small kids live with my parents in my mothers home, My father is verbally abusive.?

Question

I am concerned for my kids. My mother owns the house, the deed is in her name. Can we make my father leave the home, we have never reported this to authoritites. what would the process be to make him leave and stay away?

First of all, do not make the innocent the reason why he abuses. That is his choice. He has abusedme all of my life. This not because we live there. I pay all the bills and the living situation is not crowded or making him Uncomfortable. We all have our own living space. HE has never provided for his family or worked in his life. I take care of my mother who is not able to work! not to mention keeping him warm and fed.

Answer 1

Please take your children out of this traumatic situation. He willl never stop, so please take your children and go live somewhere else.

Answer 2

When the nest becomes too crowded, the fledglings take flight on their own.

I'm not sticking up for the father but it does appear that the living situation may be a part of his apparent anger. Until his actions escalate into physical harm to the children, there may be no legal recourse for you. (it's not illegal to be an a$$hole) It would probably be in your children's best interest for you and your husband to work towards making your own home before the situation escalates to physical violence.

Additional deatail:
Your agrument became less credible with words like "always and never" Always and never are rarely the case. It does however appear that to remain is YOUR chioce so why be in an unhappy home? You could still live nearby and care for your mother.

Answer 3

First, your mother would have to call your local police department and place a complaint. Then when this occurs again they can do something other than tell him to stop. Finally when he is out of the house your mother can get a restraining order or if he lives in the home she will have to get a notice of eviction from the courts or a judge and he then has 30 days to move out. That's the route I would take but, Mom has to be in on it if not it won't work. In most every State you have got to get a notice of eviction from the owner if you have established residence in that home.

Answer 4

The only thing I can say is get your kids out of there. Since you dont own the home your mother has to take of that herself.

Answer 5

got out and get your family a one bedroom apartment to live and save your kids from years of bad dream. living in an appartment and having a poor life is better than living in a home with a abuser.

Answer 6

I don't mean to sound harsh, but you , your husband and your kids need to be living in your own home and then yall won't be subjectd to your fathers abusive behavior he probably doesn't want yall there.

Answer 7

I think that the answer may be to find your own place. You and your husband need to raise your children in your own home.

Answer 8

why don't you,your husband and kids move out of your parent house and get your own place.maybe your father will act better if you all left.

Answer 9

if your mom has put up with it til now she will keep doing so - so you need to go on your own and make your way

Answer 10

That would be something your mother would need to do... not you