Here is an example:
Girl #1: SHe is a virgin and plans to wait until she marries.SHe doesnt drink, doesn't smoke and doesnt do drug.She is more family oriented and helpful towards others.SHe is smart, well educated.Got career goals, she is loyal, faithful and is an honest woman.SHe is physically beautiful and very caring. She is understanding and is willing to compromise to make a man happy and not always get things always her way.
Girl #2: Seems to give herself quite easily and has been around with many men. She rarely works for what she needs she always has some guy do her homework or whatever she needs done.Financialy relies on a man ALWAYS.She tends to gossip, flirt with alot of men. Tends to be unfaithful. manipulative, will twist the truth to get things done her way.
Why is men tend to prefer Girl#2 ??? Why do they flock to those type of women?Why do men tend to hate Girl #1?
Why is it girl#2 tend to get more ahea
2006-10-09 15:20:50 · 20 answers · asked by liipl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am girl #1 but noticed that people tend to prefer and support more girl#2
2006-10-09 15:37:06 · update #1
Men do tend to flock to girl #2 because she is easy and they don't have to work at getting the sexual satisfaction that most men are looking for.
But I will tell you this. It may look like she is getting ahead now, but I can guarentee that girl #1 will be happier in the end. Most people shun people with morales, because they are not easily used and are not easily used as girl #2 will be.
Once girl #2 grows up she will envy what girl #1 has.
2006-10-09 15:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by Grady T 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman but this is what I think. Yes the men tend to flock to girl #2 only for awhile they actually use them until they get tired of them they do not think of that kind of girl the marrying type. Girl #1 they can take home to meet the parents. They want that kind of girl to marry. They respect that girl way more then #2. It may seem like girl #2 gets it first but you will get a good man in the end.
2006-10-09 15:30:54 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say your age. However, if you are an adult, you will find that many men will prefer #1 (I certainly would) ... if you are in your teens or early 20s, you will find the boys prefer the immediate gratification of #2 without consideration for the future.
However, this phenomenon works both ways. A slightly nerdy, but smart guy with potential will get passed over for a good looking football player who will have to get help to pass a basic math course in community college.
I'm right, no?
2006-10-09 15:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by kentata 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd be more than happy with Girl #1 - like you!
Girl #2's are shallow, whiny and not trustworthy. They are shysters and do nothing but complain and whine or scheme their way around a relationship.
Girl #1 is rare, they have substance, ethics, morals, intelligence and they can be your best friend, the greatest lover and you could actually have a substantial, long-lasting relationship with girl #1.
Most men are lazy and don't want to put forth the effort. So, girl #2 steps up to the plate and well....there ya go. One-night-stands waiting to happen.
There are fewer men like me around and fewer women like you. I can't find girls like you, and apparently you can't find men like me. But the other group....girl #2 and the guys that hook up with'em are all out having a high ole time.
It's frustrating, but I'm not going to compromise and go for girl #2....I'm waiting for something I can count on!
2006-10-09 15:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men who have any character at all will recognize the value of girl #1 if she is faithful and honest. Guys who want girl #2 are looking for the hook up
2006-10-09 15:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl #2 will get ahead because she knows how to be manipulative and doesn't really care about feelings. She puts on a show at first to get the man. Once he's in her trap she just plays his feelings. In her head she is thinking (Men are so dumb). Usually though with these women, karma comes and kicks them in the ***
2006-10-09 15:25:33 · answer #6 · answered by Aidge 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I went out with girl # two, then she turned out to be more like girl #1, ive been with her for 5 yrs now, and were on our 2nd child. The bad girl qualities of girl #1 is what attracted me to her, but the good girl qualities that i found, made me want to stay with her, the kind u can show off to mom.
2006-10-09 15:32:42 · answer #7 · answered by trevor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just think # 2 is more attractive to men , In actuality she is only attractive to guys that just want to use her. You don't want those kinds of guys anyways.One good man is way better than a bunch of losers.And thats what # 2 is getting , all the losers.
2006-10-09 15:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where you live, but that is not always the case, I married a virgin and love my wife soooo much that I can't imagine getting with a girl #2 type.
2006-10-09 15:23:28 · answer #9 · answered by pay 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are girl#1 and you are observing the wrong kinds of guys. There are many good men who do want girl #1.
2006-10-09 15:27:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋