should i be worried about my husband talking to one of his old sex buddies?

Answer 1

If he's being secretive about it, absolutely. That's an affair waiting to happen -- if not an affair already happening.

If he's being up front with you about who he's talking to and what they're talking about, then you can trust him. If she can be friendly with you before asking to speak to him when you answer the phone, you can probably trust her. But if she hangs up when you answer the phone, she's after your man.