okay here goes.
I love bands, and I fantasize alot.
Lately I was wondering if I was a lesbo, but I kinda like men, there is this young lady I’m attracted to, and I often wonder what it would be like holding hands, cuddling, talking by the pond and of course wonderful...wink wink.But I have a tendency to fantasize about two men,two hot men in bands and sometimes me and her.
but never really me and a guy unless I take the time to think about it.
I was raised Christian but , well I’m having a hard time controlling my thoughts. Yes I haven’t been reading my bible and I do want to be okay with God but
I don’t really trust men and I haven’t found one I particular have feelings for. Just cute ones but not ones Id like to get to know.
yes I'm strange, and I'd like the thoughts to stop actually, I need to be normal, I cant be lesbo!!!
maybe its LUG ( lesbian until graduation), 'cause I'm in college.
oh heck, I dunno,
I’m going to the student union to get some Mac and cheese,
see ya!
thnx
2006-10-09 15:07:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I know what you mean! Realy I am a lesbian myself traped in a mans body! Maybe we can get together by the pond sometime! ;)
2006-10-10 16:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by gene_harden2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason you are confused about this matter is because human sexuality starts mentally (fantasizing) and becomes physical later. The brain can be compared to exercising. You will develop either strength or endurance muscles depending on your work-out. The brain dispenses chemicals and hormones into the body. A person who becomes depressed sends out harmful chemicals from the brain and helpful chemicals from happy thoughts. The same is true with sexual thoughts. How you think develops your sexual orientation. This is a fact! You are not "born that way". Heterosexuals choose their sexual appetite just as homosexuals do, by thinking (fantasizing) about it.
No matter what your sexual orientation is, if you have a strong attraction for someone, get all excited and they make a comment that offends you, suddenly the sexual urge disappears. Again, this demonstrates sex, for humans, is very much mental. Otherwise, you would have to say we are animals who do not have free will (choice).
2006-10-09 15:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by Search4truth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're probably bisexual, I doubt you are a 100% lesbian since you fantasize about guys as well.
But what you do about this is totally up to you. A bunch of strangers on a website really can't make your life decisions for you.
I would encourage you to go for it, but then again, I've never been Christian and I don't know what it is like to have that kind of religious pressure. I know that for me, I couldn't live in my head any more: wondering, fantasizing, worrying. I needed to just try being with a girl to be sure of myself. Now I'm a very happy and open bisexual.
But the choice has to be yours. Enjoy the mac and cheese!
2006-10-10 04:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"yes I'm strange, and I'd like the thoughts to stop actually, I need to be normal, I cant be lesbo!!!"
- i resent this comment. you're making being a lesbian out as something that's not normal, like it's some sort of disease.
and it most definitely IS NOT. it is a personal choice. a choice that intellects would have no difficulty respecting.
as for your case, you are bisexual, leaning towards being a lesbian. no doubt about it. so, stop supressing your feelings. otherwise, you could end up having a mental disorder. and THAT would be ABNORMAL.
2006-10-09 21:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by - iceman - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 00:45:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never actually thought that way except i think it would be nice nit to have to tell a guy what you want most women no what women like .i wouldn't worry just yet ,you haven't acted on your thoughts ,i don't think reading the bible will help maybe you want to try both . would your family except you no matter what? i say go with what feels right.
2006-10-09 15:20:16 · answer #6 · answered by amanda b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop so much of fantasizing and day-dreaming.. come a little into the practical world, and you would know what was wrong with you.
2006-10-09 15:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be you should increase your interest in men.
Like watching pictures in magazines.
anything that has hot men or man.
Think Man talk man.
2006-10-09 15:21:45 · answer #8 · answered by Forrest T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with Christ, you'll be much hapier
You might think another girl looks good or has or nice clothes or whatver...but know in your heart, that its not wise, not smart, not godly to engage in homosexuality or to even think of them that way.
James 1:5-If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.
2006-10-09 15:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by Maurice H 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
there is only one way to find out. munch a little beav!
2006-10-09 15:21:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋