What are many ways I can tease my man and spice up the se x life so im in charge?

Answer 1

To tease him go topless at home & make him make the first move then make him beg for it. You can also serve him a drink topless or nude!!!

If you want to be in charge take the top position so he’s on the bottom looking up at you. Take control & force him to suck & lick your breasts & them move up so he’s giving you oral sex. Your can swing your breasts at his face. Tell him you want to do be in charge once in a while -- maybe one time in 4? If he really cares for you he should be willing to meet your needs.

Asked him what he's Comfortable with & willing to do. He might like having you a control once in a while.

Answer 2

Get him hot by touching yourself for pleasure and feeling erotic. Whether you understand it or not, you are in charge of 100% of the pusssy and using it right will cause him to get pretty spicy in a hurry.

Answer 3

Feed him a good meal and stop yakin' so much.

Answer 4

handcuff him to the bed posts or tie him up if you don't have cuffs, then you can do anything you want to... I'll let your imagination take it from here.....

Answer 5

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You can also try giving him a lap dance. Bring a pole into the bedroom and do a little shake.


How to seduce a man:
Men. They can be a real mystery. Follow these tips and you, too, can be an expert in the art of seducing a man. Seduction is an art like poetry or dance. It is different though because its intent is to make a person feel unsatisfied--unsatisfied until he can have you.
1. Get your confidence up. This can mean doing things such as getting a new haircut, new clothes, losing weight, or just reminding yourself of your great qualities. You need to make the man like you before you can make a move. This also means having the self-assurance to be "yourself"--to not mold yourself to what you think he wants in a woman, as you'll most likely come off as trying too hard and being insecure.

2. Spread mysterious, taboo-filled rumors about yourself. A good example is "yeah, I'm kinda seeing a guy, but I can't talk about it because he's a lot older. It's nothing serious." If you glaze over the truth, it seems more interesting than it really is. Guys will hear about it and be intrigued.

3. Use a seductive tone of voice. For girls this is melodious and breathy, but still calm and confident. Study Marilyn Monroe for a good example.

4. Wear clothing that is fashionable and shows some skin.

5. Learn to dance. Dancing is one of the most seductive things a girl can do.

6. Learn to walk like a model: strong, confident, with a good swagger and with excellent posture.

7. Wait until you can tell he is interested. Guys never like unwanted advances.

8. Be flirty with your target. Nothing too obvious; just let him know that you're interested, possibly by glancing or winking at him. Don't be afraid to bend over and show some cleavage--even if you don't have much. The point is to show that you're happy with your body and you don't mind that he gets a preview.

9. Hint at your target's weak points. If he works too much, suggest that he is missing out on a lot of fun. If he is a party animal, suggest that he will never get a girl unless he makes money.

10. Ignore him for a little while. Give him the space and time to forget about the things that may have turned him off and fantasize about the good things. Never reveal too much of yourself because you almost certainly will turn him off. Another idea is to flake out on him and give a sincere, heartfelt apology.

11. Invite him to a private place when the time seems right. Go somewhere you can be alone and talk.

12. Mirror his body language to show you like him.

13. Touch him, perhaps on the hand or wrist. This will subtly demonstrate that you are interested.

14. Offer him a massage to help build physical contact or say that you are sleepy and put your head on his shoulder. If he is shy, back off or leave the room for a while to let him get over his shyness and fantasize about where it could have gone from there.

15. Get in close. Talk to him, and let him know you like him. Guys like to hear that they are wanted just as much as girls do. If he has a slim or medium build, say how strong he is. If he is not so smart, tell him how smart he is (at the right time). Say that it feels good when he holds you. Also, just listen to him.
Make eye contact with your target. The eyes are said to be windows to the soul, and you want to make sure he knows you're trying to get inside his soul. When you are locked in a loving glance, talk about small stuff like the weather, the movie you just saw, or dinner and use short simple words. Talk only about the present moment. Make sure that he kisses you first.

17. It's up to you whether to take it to the next level or not. If you feel that he is a wannabe player and just making out with you to tell his friends, tell him that and leave. He will fall in love with you eventually. If you feel he geniunely adores you, take it all the way.

Tips:
Seduction works on the brain. It's the art of making a guy fall in love with you against his will. If he is attracted to you at first, that doesn't count as a seduction and you need more practice.

A successful seduction does not necessarily end in the bedroom. If work, a girlfriend, a wife or family get in the way, a love affair can be maintained beneath the radar and without much contact. A faithful boyfriend or husband may need to ignore you to resist the temptation you present.

Seducing a man you are not in love with is the best way to enhance your sex appeal. Studies have shown that socially ostracized individuals (those of us who don't date) have thicker, duller hair and skin, worse posture, more body fat, less symmetrical features, and much less confidence.

Wear clothing which makes you feel and look sexy. Enhance your cleavage with a well-fitting bra, learn to put on makeup in the way that is most suitable to your features, and show skin. Note: many men will be completely turned off if a woman tries too hard to look sexy.

Always pay a good deal less attention to your target than he pays to you. For every three times you feel him glance at you, glance at him once. If he has not noticed you, do not visibly notice him. However, when your eyes meet, do not be the first to look away. This will give you seductive power.

Don't be afraid to point out your target's weaknesses, ignore your target, or cancel a date IF your target is definitely interested in you. This will augment the interest to intrigue.

When you sit, cross your legs and never rest your back on the seat.

Balance out your masculine features with feminine ones. Your overall look should be 50-100% feminine. If you have small breasts and less curves, if you are tall or if you are not so pretty, wear a thin dress that shows lots of skin, wear makeup, and wear your hair long (e.g. Maria Sharapova). If you naturally look pretty and feminine, you have the option of cutting your hair short, wearing denim, or going out with less makeup (e.g. Halle Berry). Also make sure your personality is 50-100% feminine.

Wear a light attractive scent. This means layering scents. Bathe in scented bath oils first. Then apply a light powder in the same scent. Finally spray the same scented perfume in front of you and walk into the mist. Do this about 45 minutes before you see him. If you overpower him with your scent, instead of wanting to edge a bit closer he will be running for the nearest exit.

Cook him a meal. After all, the way to a man's heart is his stomach.

Avoid hairstyles which involve lots of hair products, as getting his fingers stuck in your hair rather kills the moment.

Candlelight and music set the scene for seduction. Soft lighting minimizes lines and wrinkles and gives your skin a bit of a glow. Keep candles handy or lamps that have adjustable lighting. In soft lighting you can be his dream woman and you can feel a thousand times better about undressing in front of him.
Don't agree with everything he says. Have a mind of your own and comment back. It is good to have a different point of view when you converse.

Try different perfumes to find out what men like.

Warnings
Not everyone can be seduced. Men who are secure with themselves and men who are happily in a relationship or married are practically impossible to seduce.

Always make sure a friend knows where you are if you are meeting someone you don't know well.

When engaging in sexual intercourse, always use protection. It's ok for both the man and woman to be tested for STD's prior to intercourse.

It may be a bit harsh, but you do need to know who is in your league. A good rule of thumb is that a powerful seduction can increase your attractiveness about 4 points on a ten point scale.

Don't ask him if he likes your new purse. Guys don't like to talk about that kind of stuff. Find a guy hobby that you can relate to and try to get info every chance you get. Whether it's cars, football, politics or movies. Try to get to know a topic by listening to people discuss it, and comment back, but always add a feminine touch to masculine topics. Say stuff like, "oh, I love Steve Nash, he is so hot."

Don't talk about your ex. If he asks, keep it short and sweet. You are starting fresh with this guy. No need to bring in the ghost of past relationships. You are perfect to him in the beginning. There is no reason to make him wonder if the last guy who dumped you was right.

Things You'll Need:
Confidence
Willingness to bend the truth for the desired effect
Empathy

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