I have been married 4 years. We have 2 small children. I am a very attractive 25 year old but my husband's eyes wander (lloking at other women) whenever we go out. I don't mind him looking once and then looking away...but he stares and stares and unfortunately for him the women he looks at don't even look back at him. I asked him why he does that and he says he doesn't...and thats bullcrap....I am so tired of this...should I leave him...so he can stare to his heart's content??
2006-10-09 15:01:20 · 18 answers · asked by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sweety, ask yourself why this bothers you - is he not paying attention to you? Are you jealous? I ask because I often look at people in general and especially good looking women - not because I desire them, just because I enjoy people watching. I agree that he should not stare to the point it embarrasses you and you feel he is not being respectful. Maybe give him a taste of his own medicine next time you are out in public. Start staring at some attractive guys and see if he says something. I hope it works out for you both - best of luck!
2006-10-09 15:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by ur_ave_joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me when I was dating this one person back in the day. In your case, it's alittle difficult because your married and you have two little ones. If you weren't married to him and didn't have any children, then i would say leave him because if he loved you, then he would respect you and be committed to you. Since you have the whole package with kids on the side, then you have to find out if he's doing anything behind your back. I'm not saying get on his case about it but try to find any hints that leads to anything you may think he's doing behind you back. it looks to me that your probably not pretty enough for him or maybe you don't have what other women he's looking have. I'm sorry to say that to you in that way. I'm sure your beautiful and he loves you but, man are dogs, they will always be dogs. You should decide what's best for you and your kids. if you're willing to leave him with the kids and be strong about it, or do you want to continue taking his crap like that?
2006-10-09 22:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by jigenlo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey i have a same problem with my hubby too. I am also a young and a mother of his child. However, i stopped caring whom he stares because he used to argue with me and i used to feel very bad, Now that i wont say anything he is not staring so much as he used to! Try to ignore ! good luck
2006-10-09 22:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by kiran123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for him. It's like he doesnt think he is attractive enough so he is trying to get the other women to notice him. He is making a fool out of himself. I have guys stare at me when they are with their wifes, I look at them like they are loosers. everytime he does it look away adn icnore it. He needs to grow up.
2006-10-09 22:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know if he is actually cheating on you or just looking? if he is cheating then yes leave. If not then I would just sit him down and make him see what this is doing to you and your family. Let him know in a way that is not being nasty how it makes you feel and how you can't live with it. Good luck
2006-10-09 22:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by kimnwi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he's doing is completely wrong and hurtful...and he won't even fess up to it!! He's showing you a total lack of respect. Nobody can tell you to leave him. It all depends on if you can handle being treated this way for forever.
2006-10-09 22:08:07 · answer #6 · answered by lollylayla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the man look, damn, He ain't dead. Why don't you just neuter the poor boy and get it over with. If married men can't enjoy looking at a fine woman then I don't want to get married. it is not like he is crewing them.
PS Don't you ever look at men?
2006-10-09 22:21:27 · answer #7 · answered by Parrot Bay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a reason to leave your husband.He looks.Don't you look every now and than.I think everybody looks every now and than.To leave your husband for looking is stupid.If you're tired of it then push harder for it to stop.If that don't work then it's time to have that serious talk.
2006-10-09 22:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by nick j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is why i stay the as far the hell away from women as possible. You never know what the hell will set them off and you never know how there going to react when they have been set off. thinking about divorce over something stupid like this. OVERREACTING
2006-10-09 22:08:08 · answer #9 · answered by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UNLESS he makes a pass at a woman ignore it i know it is very annoying BUT it is something that men do, or play him at his own game when you go out, & look at other men, then he will know just how you feel,
2006-10-09 22:05:38 · answer #10 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋