because I have never believed in abortion but in this case it is nessecary.Has anyone been through this and how you cope with it?
2006-10-09 15:00:28 · 16 answers · asked by Dominica B 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you will feel bad but pray and talk about your baby to others,dont ignore what happened. it helps so much and grieve this lost before you try and get preg again . i wish you luck
2006-10-09 15:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by 194p$k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might actually feel relieved.
Make sure you know what support is available, should you need it, and don't hesitate to use it. But don't talk yourself into being a mess, either, just because you think you SHOULD feel bad or because people expect you to.
I'm sure you'll feel a lot of what-ifs. I think everyone does. But as for the rest of it, everyone deals in their own way. And some people--good people, too--don't find that a necessary abortion causes an undue amount of distress.
2006-10-09 15:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by Yarro Pilz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how far along you are - I think that is going to make a difference in how you are going to feel.
However, since this is medically necessary, I would keep that in mind - you didn't choose this, your doctor said this must be done.
Ask your doctor for a good counselor in case you need some help coping.
2006-10-09 15:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seek counseling. If you want the baby then get a second even a third opinion. A cousin of mine was told that the baby would not be healthy. She now has a perfectly healthy little girl. Good Luck!!
2006-10-09 15:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by Desiree S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abortion is NEVER necessary! God will take car of whatever medical problem you have. Do not kill your baby. There have been many, many times when the doctors said there is no hope and it came out just fine. Abortion is very emotionally devastating. Trust in the Lord that His will be done.
2006-10-10 11:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by Patty 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am so sorry that you are going to have to go through this. Try and find a counseler or psychiatrist before you have the procedure, that way, you won't have to try and find one later, when you're feeling terrible.
It may make you feel better to hold a memorial service for the baby.
I'm very sorry.
2006-10-09 16:52:45 · answer #6 · answered by Queen Queso 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister had to have an abortion for medical reasons. She was a mess... we tried to support her the best we could and she was in therapy for awhile. I hope everything turns out well for ya.
2006-10-09 15:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by emmadropit 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it is for a medical reason...and your being advised to do it then emotionally....it wont bug you ...just tell yourself...I had to do it in order for my physical health.....I have been through an abort...but for a diff. reason..and that is the emotional one thats hard to cope with...if you are honestly being ADVISED to do so...then you will be ok.
2006-10-09 15:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is going to be very hard to cope. You are going to be really depressed and no one or nothing is going to make you feel better. You will not want to leave your house at first but after a while you realize that you have to do what you have to do. Good luck sweetheart.
2006-10-09 15:03:07 · answer #9 · answered by sweethonesty1699 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Abortions are extremely painful. I had one and that i did not get positioned to sleep i in simple terms had some soreness numbing pills and that i in spite of if felt the full element.I looks like a knife cutting by using utilising your insides ripping and slashing away at you.Then they positioned your fetus in a jar and do i don't understand what with it. That was the main serious be apologetic approximately of my existence and that i think of like no one ought to ought to bypass by using way of that. I had nightmares for months consistent crying i became as quickly as depressed to the element the place i became on melancholy pills , and the only explanation why i won an abortion is using the actuality my fiance suggestion it was what became fantastic for us. After he observed the have an result on it had on me as quickly as i finished up getting pregnant lower back it made me unhappy on the grounds that that became my first teen that became as quickly as my first infant.in spite of if i'm pregnant now it is not my first infant. i will in no way have that by way of fact i killed it and that i don't have all of us to blame in spite of if me. I begged god for forgiveness and in spite of if he will have forgiving me i in no way forgave my self. That was the main serious be apologetic approximately of my existence to kill my first teen. do not do it
2016-11-27 03:40:55 · answer #10 · answered by rousselle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to realize that what happens in your life ( such as this ) the events and circumstances, are meant to be. It is all part of your journey through this world. Don't try to understand it now, it will all become clear to you at a later time.
2006-10-09 15:10:17 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋