i don't understand why my wife is so freaking insane she always calls and checks up on me and suspects me of cheating. i used to cheat in the past but she only caught me 3 times and now im done with all of that so can't i go hang out with my freinds and just come home early the next day i don't understand why she has to call me 1 or 2 times a day just to talk i know she is just seeing if im cheating and not that bull**** that she loves me or whatever horse crap she says what a b**** right?
2006-10-09 14:45:29 · 24 answers · asked by tom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Gee you only cheated three times (that she knows about).....I just can't understand why she doesn't trust you. I bet you told her after the first time it would never happen again. And after the second time..."it will never happen again" and let me guess...after the third time the same thing.
Grow up and realize that you destroyed trust and love all three times and you have to earn it back. Being where you say you will be and her checking up on you is part of that.
I do want to thank you for reaffirming my belief that the "human gene pool need a big batch of chlorine"
2006-10-09 14:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You do understand. You're just annoyed and really it's your own fault. No sympathy. Stop focusing om your own feelings and needs (again) and think about her.
So, no, you can't go hang out with freinds and just come home early the next day. Are you an adult? That's one of the craziest things I've ever heard coming from a married man! Grow up!
2006-10-09 22:09:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without sounding rude, You're lucky she doesn't kick your butt out the door. Most women would have done that the 1st time you cheated. We need to talk some sense into your wife and tell her to leave you alone, really LEAVE YOU and then leave you alone. She can do alot better. Sounds like she loves you but I don't know why. She doesn't trust you , wonder why? Put yourself in her shoes, would you trust her if she had done the things you have done?
2006-10-09 22:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, buddy - my husband has some advice for you so listen up! Billy says deny yourself, you jerk! It's all about her now. Do whatever it takes to prove you can be trusted again. Dote on her - bring her flowers, call her, (b-4 she calls you), leave her cute notes, rub her feet, listen to her vent, etc. and tonight, give her the best orgasm she's ever had! You can do that, right? Keep on the straight and narrow and just maybe she'll start to come back again. Do her right! oh, just so you know, I agree with Billy, he is the best husband ever - 16 yrs. - never cheated! Actions speak louder than words - she'll get it eventually. Stay cool, man. :)
2006-10-09 22:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by Forever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get real and start spending some time with your wife and not your friends. You said you cheated on her before so it's obvious she's having a hard time trusting you. Grow up and start being a man. Why did you get married if you weren't ready to be committed to one person?
2006-10-09 22:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by danikatspecial 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the one with the cheating in his past...she obviously doesn't trust you and with good reason. You obviously don't love your wife otherwise you never would have cheated in the first place...do her a favor and release her from the marriage she deserves much better than you.
2006-10-10 01:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're the b**** for cheating in the first place. And u have the audacity to say she "only" caught u 3 times!! How many acts of infidelity did u get away with? Don't get mad at her because she realizes that you can't be trusted! You caused that on yourself. She should have left you instead of trying to work things out and continuing to love your cheating azz!!!
2006-10-09 21:51:45 · answer #7 · answered by bettiboo 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well have you guys have ever thought of seeking help. maybe because it's in her back of her mind. since you cheating on her a couple of time. maybe you did change but you need to show her that. like spend time with her and show her you love her and only her. but i would say go get help. talk to someone. tell her to stop saying you are cheating until she has prove. but anyway i hope this help. good luck
2006-10-09 21:56:27 · answer #8 · answered by Melda R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no! ur lucky she's still with you. youre a horrible person for cheating on ur wife. she caught u 3 times? most women would have left you. so using LOGIC, something u obciously dont have, wouldnt it be smart to say "gee, MAYBE, just maybe she doesnt trust me cuz im a lousy husband and i cheat on her every chance i get?". dude, u deserve every bit of critisism and checking-up-on ur wife can dish out.
2006-10-09 22:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well actually I think she is a fool to stay with you. You cheated on her three times and she can never trust you. If you were my husband I would not even want you to go out with your friends. She lost your trust. You also call her a ***** when she stood beside you after you had all those affairs. Your not worth that!!!!
2006-10-09 22:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋