2006-10-09 14:40:28 · 12 answers · asked by scorpionqueen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are a pushover, you'll cook for him, clean for him, iron his clothes, pump out his babies and wipe his ***.
If you are an independent, strong woman, you'll leave his pussy *** and make your own life.
2006-10-09 14:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by Chrissy: The Angry Typer a/k/a Mood Mole 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you okay with him being a mama's boy?? If not then I think you should end it now rather then later. Its hard to be in a relationship with a boy that is a mama's boy, b/c usually the boy's mom doesnt want to lose that relationship with her son and can be mean to ya!!! I say if it bothers ya end it soon if not then theres no porblem!! good luck!!!
2006-10-09 22:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by sporty19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you want to do and what you expect.
Until his mother passes away, or she makes herself such a nuisance in your lives that he deliberately distances himself from her, she will always be a major player in your relationship. You will have a triangle, and her hold on him will always be stronger.
Some men allow their mothers to keep their apron strings tied around them so tightly that *any* decision, minor or major, goes through her. The color of paint chosen for your house, where you spend vacations, whether your children attend public or private schools... every Sunday dinner will be either at her or your house...he is unable to make decisions for himself. It's simply more comfortable for mama to do it for him, and if he tries to strike out on his own, she makes his life (and yours!) miserable.
If he develops a backbone and resists her intrusion at some point, the family is split between mama's side and yours. Most family members will view you as a usurper who is trying to take their brother or son away and keep mama from access to her baby boy. Yes, that's what they'll think!
The Bible says that "a man leaves his mother" and begins a new family on his own.
Unless you have a very good reason for staying with this man-who-has-not-yet-grown-up, find someone else who has grown into an adult.
2006-10-09 21:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by Mmerobin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just deal with it, i mean a mamas boy turns out to be great. He helps,takes care of his mom and loves her very much. wouldnt u want your son or daughter to do that 4 u?
2006-10-09 21:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by Mizz Latina 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You'll be his mama. Pick another unless that's the role you want.
2006-10-09 21:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel like you are in competition with her for his attentions or tending to his needs. You both fulfill very important very different needs for him. Do your very best to become the very best daughter (in law) material you can be to her. If that's where you want to take your relationship with him. Treat her as you would your own Mum! Love her and Love her son and treat them both accordingly you shouldn't have any problem with her.
2006-10-09 21:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by Heathery Lane 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've had both type, mamma's boy and love mamma's but are their own person. Run like h@ll. I tried like h@ll to be nice to my husband's mother she did crap no one would believe. I love family, but a mother like that WILL break you up and cause you misery.
2006-10-09 21:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by Patty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone new before she finds a way to keep you away from the good son.
2006-10-09 21:43:23 · answer #8 · answered by fearslady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring a real man home he will either step up or step out
2006-10-09 21:43:31 · answer #9 · answered by casperenrag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u can't change him just tell him how u feel and then let it go from there i'm sure u'll work something out
2006-10-09 21:43:47 · answer #10 · answered by Beastie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋