If so, why?
2006-10-09 14:35:11 · 15 answers · asked by L.A. Scene 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This does not apply to me...but thanks for all the advice anyway. It was a general question.
2006-10-10 05:30:20 · update #1
Yes I did.
He cheated on me during a rough time, we were kind of on a break , a break that I didn't think meant seeing other people, but he he went to another.
It totally crushed me and broke my heart when I found out. He was devastated at what he had done, was extremely remorseful.
I forgave him , the forgetting part was not so easy, and its always there in the back of you mind. But he has redeemed himself in every way, he is totally transparent in everything he does, and very doting in making me feel secure about everything, and slowly I am regaining the trust again, but he is making every effort.
I didn't think I would ever take back a man who cheated, but I did. However if he EVER even gave me a glimpse of it again, there would be NO more chance.!
2006-10-09 15:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I disagree that you shouldn't, but will warn you that truly recovering from infidelity is a long, hard, bumpy road. It takes a spouse that is willing to give you 100% commitment and do whatever they can to help you heal.
This includes location transparency, no contact with other person, access and passwords to all computer and cell phone accounts, counseling, and so on.
It can be done, but it is one of the hardest things we have been through, I was the betrayed spouse, and even after four years there can still be triggers.
2006-10-09 21:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Because I love her so much. I do love my wife and I have forgiven her 3 times for cheating.
Guess what I am divorced and my wife and her boyfriend live in my house. I still forgiver her and I do not hate her. She does not love me like I love her.
She never for gave her self and gave up on me because I was week and forgave her. Go figure.
2006-10-09 21:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
no i havent and i hope i never face this type of problem but if there was a problem like dis in my life i would just think about what i want and what i got. can i forgive the person from heart and can i move on.
overall i would probably give it another chance
wish u all da best
takecare
2006-10-09 22:03:10 · answer #4 · answered by HELP ME 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes,,, i have and i did it because i love real deep, the problem was i could forgive but it is still in the back of my mind, if he is late or doesn't answer the phone, go out to the bar; good luck
2006-10-09 21:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I did. He was overly remorseful. Then I caught him 4 more times. Once a cheater always a cheater!!
2006-10-09 21:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by U dont know me 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
yes because i love him.. i loved him so much i took him back 3 times and to this day i still worry if he is cheating on me or not... he re ensures me that he dose not want to do that to me again, he felt like **** and he just wants to move on... of course every time i talk about marriage he says he wants to make sure that our future is going to be alright and he wants it to be comfortable... so if you have any advice please right
2006-10-09 21:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by melanie s 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes and it was the biggest mistake i ever did. Sooner or later you are going to split so you might want to cut your loses now
2006-10-09 22:08:42 · answer #8 · answered by jicarlo h 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I did - because I loved him. Five years later he did it again for the same reason - he was not happy. This time I divorced him. I deserve better...so do you.
2006-10-09 23:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
dude let it go don't give in, u have to get over your wife or deal with this for the rest of your life move on. yes it will be stressful in the beginning but trust me u will get over her
2006-10-09 21:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋