People always think that if they are fat and ugly that they have to go gay to feel secure about themself. why would they do something like that because they could be a good person at heart. when u respond to this please dont be negative about it cause i have a friend thats like this and i need help to understand her situation.
2006-10-09 14:28:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
You said you didn't want any negative responses...well, it's very difficult to be positive here. Although I'm sure it was not your intention, you have insulted so many people with this generalized statement...fat?! ugly?! gay?! Not everyone who is fat is gay or ugly. No wonder your friend has such low self-esteem...you're her friend and you're saying she's ugly, fat and gay! If you really want to understand her, you should be a supportive listener...let her express her feelings. Reassure her that she is ok to be who she is and respect her regardless of her looks or sexual orientation.
And just in case you're wondering...YES, I am a beautiful (inside & out) plus sized female who is neither ugly or gay!
2006-10-09 14:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by PD GAL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, not to be mean but gay people ARE Good People because they are gay it doesnt make them bad, and its not true that all lesbians are fat and ugly. Im a bisexual and Im neither fat nor ugly. Its a lifestyle choice not a choice because of insecurity. sorry I had to be mean but you probably should expect some negative answers. Nothing against you or anything but thats my personal beliefs
and I know some really attractive non fat lesbians, who have no problem finding what they want, and they are totally secure with themselves
2006-10-09 14:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by beautifullybroken 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am fat and happily married with two children. Not to mention I have seen some really good looking gay people. Sometimes I wonder why some of the hotest men are gay. Dont get me wrong, I love my husband, but I have seen some gay guys that have knocked me for a loop with their looks.
2006-10-09 14:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by nanners040477 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell-----o
dont know where you get your info from, but could not be more wrong.
first off no one is ugly....( well the person who calls someone ugly is ugly) and yes there are fat people...
BUT
just because one is fat that does not mean they are gay... and if they are gay they do not do it to become secure about themselves.
you have no right say that gay people are fat and ugly.. a person is gay because that is their lifestyle and it has nothing to do with looks or weight..
there are so very thin attractive gay people....
before you go asking such a stupid question again.. research your info.....
you have just bashed gays...
i assume you are black from your avitar... so I guess if you can bash gays i can bash blacks...
2006-10-09 14:33:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What are you talking about? If someone is gay, it's because that is their preference, it has nothing to do with how they look. You can't just 'turn' gay, it's doesn't work like that. And just because you are gay, doesn't mean the gay community will find you any more attractive than the straight community. Stop talking BS, there is alread enough ignorance in the world!!
2006-10-09 14:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
In general, gay guys only want interesting people, beautiful clothes, beautiful places. All that has a good appearance is welcome.It sounds strange for me what you say. Does it work different with gay girls?
2006-10-13 02:12:36 · answer #6 · answered by Albert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! First I beg you to keep your kind heart and you know allow me to correct you so that i pray you may correct her mindset and thinking! sweetheart instead this down low words of description you and she must redefine the language which is used to describe her!
First she is not fat and ugly as you have described!
She my friend is large and unique!
tell her to say ....
I AM LARGE AND UNIQUE and shout out to her to embrace herself and their are ways to over come her low self esteem!
her spirituality is first her value and self worth is most important her reaction about herself is keen now her wardrobe is a most and i bet you she is not ugly as you say she don't know how to shine as many don't
tell her to redo her wardrobe to long skirts beautiful earth colors only tell her to wear beautiful jewelry starting with studs for earrings and one beautiful necklace as thin as she can find with a splendid piece on it
Tell her to wear only heel earth tone very comfortable boots or boxed shoe!
Her teeth are very important If something is wrong with her mouth she had better fix it right away by any means necessary! Her hair to do something very unique with and the smell she wears must be fragile as we as woman are!
and tell her don't she ever and I mean ever consider gay an option for those whom follow that life style they claim they are born this way so no it is not a choice!
AND FOR YOU YOUNG LADY EMBRACE YOUR FRIEND AND CONTINUE TO PROVIDE SUPPORT!
2006-10-09 14:46:38 · answer #7 · answered by wise 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO! if ur fat & ugly then u rnt neccessarily gay... or the other way around... ive seen totally cute guys who were gay... ive seen totally ugly guys who rnt gay...
2006-10-09 14:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by Kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously?? Wow.. ditch your ignorant friend. People are attracted to many different things and other people, just because society puts a standard on attractiveness doesn't mean it will change feelings.
2006-10-09 14:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren B 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Might be they never felt attractive by the opposite sex.
Low self image is another factor!
If ya dunt like it change it!
2006-10-09 14:38:35 · answer #10 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋