I think i'm bi because i'm attracted to some guys and a some girls. Anyway I guess that makes me bi ... i can deal with that. So just realizing (or maybe I knew all along and am just starting to accept it) no one knows (except you guys ... if that counts) That I'm like this.But hey, Im only asking because I cant stop thinking about this girl, amber. thats the only reason Im wondering. So, My real question is: Should I tell Amber how I feel about her? But Amber is lesbian, and she has a girlfriend already. And it would make it kinda bad if I get rejected, seeing that i go to a really small school and word gets around rather quickly. and i play sports with her, also, she graduates in 2-3 years.
2006-10-09 14:26:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the question is if i should tell her or not, not if i am lesbian or bi.
2006-10-09 14:35:17 · update #1
And the hardest part to consider is that my best friend, Kate, likes Amber and has gone out with her and still has feelings for her. Im in a rather tough position here.
2006-10-09 16:31:16 · update #2
i think that's hot that u r Bi and that's ok because of she is going out with the girl then oyu can maybe break then apart by writing a note that the other one wrote or something! and then is she brreaks up with her go for it and if she rejects you then ttry to go out with a guy that will make her want you adn then you can dump the guy and then she might want to make the next move!
2006-10-09 14:36:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will always run the risk of heart ache wither it be a boy or a girl, so that is just life.If she has a partner already i think that you should back off because "Amber" may take it as disrespect to tell her your feelings knowing that she has somebody, and lastly school rumors could only come from amber if you tell her your feelings, which if that happened would let you know she is not right for you good luck kiddo
2006-10-09 14:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by snoutcounter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not even a question of whether you're bi or not, my rule of thumb is not to mess with other people's relationships. Wait until she is single and ready for a relationship, if you still feel the same way then tell her. Either way, you should stick it out. Unitl that happens work on finding out who you are, it is always better to go into a relationship (any relationship) knowing who you as an individual are.
2006-10-09 14:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by Cat/Curiosity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read that in that situation doesn't mean your bi at all or a lesbian. It says that you just may have a crush on a girl thats all and your not gay. You could be but its a 50% chance.
2006-10-09 14:32:14 · answer #4 · answered by Shy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, TELL HER. just because you like and have friends of the same gender does not mean you are bi. it only lets others know you are open to new things.. always be a friend. best of luck
2006-10-09 14:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by michael o 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people who strengthen up undesirable or in an surroundings the place you have human beings to whom to respond to as properly the police or mothers and fathers learn which you in no way tell something that may not necessary. in case you do not say it, do not ought to describe it.
2016-10-19 02:55:29 · answer #6 · answered by balderas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is strictly up to you, just remember that in small towns everybody knows everybody else's business
2006-10-09 14:29:49 · answer #7 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋