I'm a 19 years old guy that likes guys but I wanted to change because it's being too hard for me to be the way I'm now. Is there anyway that I can become a real straight guy? tks
2006-10-09 14:25:17 · 30 answers · asked by abercrombie 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
when you are 90 years old you will look back at your life and find there is nothing wrong with being gay and you were stressing over this for nothing ,,you are gay ,,its in you and that is ok,,people have there opinions but dude,,lots of these people who answered your questions don't know what to do with there own lifes never the less yours ,,,its funny how they are so quick to judge and answer in the most negitive way,,be yourself ,talk to poeople who are helpful in a pozitive way not like these morons who tell you who you are is wrong and you should change.. be happy life is very short
2006-10-09 15:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
how about you just stick with it and realize that there are more important things to worry about in life than what people may think of you for being gay. I know, I was just like you, I hated myself for quite some time. Got into the whole drug and party scene, etc. Now that I have gotten myself away from that I have a whole new perspective on things and have come to accept that being gay is just one part of who I am and it doesn't make me a bad person.
2006-10-09 16:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by JR 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think about it. You are not gay or straight. You are a person with needs and desires. You must be sincere with yourself. And you are free to choose and try everything. But remember that if you tell a woman you are straight it implies to be faithful. Forget the guys and don't hurt your girl and yourself. Good luck!
2006-10-09 14:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why? I wanna know if I can become a gay woman.? How do you do that? Maybe someone will care about me then. Better than now anyway. Is there a way to become gay? So I'll go to hell with the rest of the world, uhhhhhhhhh
2006-10-09 14:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by silhouette 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that you need to re-examine your sexuality. Are you positive you are gay, because eventually if you are truly gay you will get to a point that being gay is the only way you can be happy weather it's difficult or not. If you want to be straight then try counseling services at a church.
2006-10-09 14:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by I'm here for now 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't change sexual orientation. It can only be repressed. I know it can be hard, it was hard for me too because I hadn't came out, kept things bottled up and refused to accept myself as gay but I had those desires which I did try to repress and change. It does not go away, it's your innate sexuality. you can either act on your attraction or don't.
2006-10-09 14:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, nothing can change who you are. Best thing now is to accept yourself and make some gay friends to help you along the way
2006-10-09 16:42:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can be whatever you want to be. Just decide. Don't listen to political gays who tell you what you should think and feel. It's not as big a deal as people make it out to be. Just be straight, and get on with your life.
Love Jack
2006-10-09 15:25:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i went through a phase much like this. i was confused at one point. i would get these thoughts about guys and stuff and it was annoying and it happened for awhile. i thought about coming out bout it. realizing its the better thing to do. well i talked to this one guy at my job about my problem and i will never think twice about homosexuality.
your not born with it. its a psychological problem. i started realizing i was looking for love from a guy b.c i felt like my dad didnt love me. sounds crazy and i went to therapy and it helped and straighted me out.
theres something in your head causing your attraction to men. whether it be because of my reason which i was told is the most often reason. you need to find that out.
your not born gay, the only thing in your genes is the susceptibility of having this psychological problem.
our bodies arent built to have sex with the same sex. so why would some peoples bodies be built to do this? it doesnt make sense.
ive walked a mile in your shoes and back. just believe, search for the reason, i even started going back to church and praying to god. i left god after years of drugs.
good luck. also it helped me to hangout with my guy friends and talk about chicks, and i looked at chicks more. dont get into porn that can make u bored of pussy.
i had a girlfriend when i went through this by the way. sex made me kind of bored of woman which also influenced my attraction to men.
im stil lwith that girl attracted to her very much, and i dont think of guys as sexual things anymore. im still metro though which is fine
2006-10-09 15:17:10 · answer #9 · answered by S1lverService 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe being the way you feel and following what you want is the thing that will make you happy in your life.
2006-10-09 14:33:51 · answer #10 · answered by The Garage Dude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋