what do u do when u get lonely and wish u could be in someone's arms but they aren't there b/c they have died? I feel very lonely right now b/c i miss someone whom i loved very much...he just recently died!
2006-10-09 14:14:18 · 8 answers · asked by hot_mama 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wow, so sorry for you, hot mama. There's not much I can say, I'm afraid. If this person's death is very recent, you just need to cry and cry and go through the horrible process of grieving and learning to live with it. I'm not saying that to be mean. Maybe you can find someone ... a friend, a niece, a pet .... whom you can hold onto and cry. Crying with someone you love does make it a little easier.
Sadly, there's nothing I or anyone else can say to help with the deep sorrow and loss you are feeling right now. You've just got to grieve through it and experience all the painful feelings, so that at some point it will be (somewhat) easier to deal with.
{{{hugs}}} to you, wherever you are.
2006-10-09 14:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by I ♥ AUG 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that this seems like a very difficult time but u owe it to yourself to find happiness. The person that you were with would want u to move on and be happy. Get out on the town and meet some people. Talk to your friends at school and let them know your feelings but remember that they are always there for you. If you still feel sad talk to someone that can help u, such as a family member or a friend. I am the kind of person that thinks the same way you do, so don't feel bad, that person would want u to be happy and find someone special.
2006-10-09 21:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI,
I am very sorry for your loss. I know this sounds strange, but I have never had a stuffed animal before, but now in my thirty's can't sleep without my big stuffed animal, and my blankie.
I don't mean to trivialize your feelings, I also feel lonely, I have learned that comforting things, like (hugs from mom) or sleeping with scoobie, or holding my son for hours, it is OK, it's not weakness, it is a natural human need.
2006-10-10 00:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by kiss me under the mistletoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very sorry that happened to you. Missing someone special is part of the grieving process and part of how life changes. You probably won't be able to fill that void quickly, but you can confide in a friend. Make the most out of your other outlets (i.e., going out, meeting people, talking with friends, journaling, meditation, etc.). I think it's okay to miss people we love. Missing them is a sign of our love for them. I lost my dad and the best thing I did was to allow myself to feel all of my emotions. That way I could sort through them and heal. Best of wishes to you!
2006-10-09 21:26:14 · answer #4 · answered by dtaschan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really hard to move on after someone you love has passed but you go to understand life goes on but never forget them. You got to know thats what they would want.
2006-10-09 21:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by SunShineBabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I miss my son who I lost a few months ago shortly after his birth. Ill write a little letter or sleep with his blanky,send him a balloon or talk about him. Maybe you can do this with your loved one. Look at photos,write a poem and put it by their grave/urn.
2006-10-09 21:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either look for someone else or talk to a friend or both
2006-10-09 21:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by jesse s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. Thats all you can do. Sorry.
2006-10-09 21:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by Ruby 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋