Married people: How often do you go out without yourspouse or how often does your spouse go out without you?

Question

Im not talking grocery shopping,I mean going out for a good time and how late do you.he/she usually stay out?
Just curious.

Answer 1

My husband and I both work alot of hours. He is a realtor so he doesn't have any "play time." If he is not working he is at home with me. We go out to eat occasionally. We do not go to bars, clubs etc. A good evening out for us, is dinner and a movie.

Answer 2

My husband has his nights, he has class 2 nights a week, he is usually home around 10ish, If you call that a good time. I work 2 days a week, that is fun! Once a month he goes to a movie and sometimes depending on the showing he gets home around 3am
That is fine with me. You need to have " you " time, if you wanna make a marriage work. I also have what is called "momma time"
where i go and do stuff to get out of the house for a few hours.
We have a 2 1/2 year old and one more on the way, So you bet I want to have some me time and get out and enjoy myself while I can! Because I know in 9weeks I am not going to be able to as much as now!

Answer 3

My hubby works 2nd shift so we see each other in the morning and on the weekends. But for the next month or so he is working mandatory 10 hour shifts so he doesn't get done until 1ish and has mandatory Saturday overtime. So right now we don't see much of each other. With this change our 11 month old son want to be by him the short time that can in the morning. O by the way I am a stay at home mom for the time being.

Answer 4

My husband is a musician and he will go to open mic 1-2 times a week, usually for about 3-4 hours. Most times I will stay home and let him go out with another guy from his band. We spend a lot of time together during the day, so I actually encourage him going out. I will also have "girls night out" maybe 1-2 times a month. These are our personal choices and we're ok with that. It works for us.

Answer 5

my husband goes out on an hourly basis... normally just over to neighbours to hang out with them, he'll come home stay for roughly a half an hour then bolt again. I rarely go out I have a 6 month old baby girl and now it's winter and I'm in alberta so going out is not really an option for me.
I try to get out of the house atleast twice a week for about 4 hours or so, normally I just go for a walk.

Answer 6

Rarely.......2-3 times a month. Only out for drinks or a movie for me with the girls. He goes to have beers after work with buddies. We go dancing together. No clubs without the mate - unless it's unavoidable - and then another set of rules kick in. No touching. :)

Answer 7

We never go out, we may go out to dinner and a movie but thats about it. We work all the time and on our days off we spend it with each other and with my husbands kids. Every once in awhile we'll have my mom watch the kids b/c his mom won't. And they are her grandchildren and not even my moms. Her excuse is that her arthritis is acting up but yet when my husbands older brother wants his children watched or needs anything shes first in line to serve him lol. So we don't even bother to ask her for anything.

Answer 8

Sometimes my husband will stop into our local watering hole and shoot a game of pool after work, which is fine as long as he's home in time for dinner. Evenings and weekends, however, we only go out together.

Answer 9

I work 5 days a week, my two days off are HER days off. Some times she doesn't come home untill 2-3 a.m.

But if I want to go out, I've got to do it AFTER work, and I don't get off work until 12 a.m. If I go anywhere, I'm not getting home until 3 a.m. also. But after working 9 hours... who wants to go out?

Answer 10

My partner and I do everything together except work, we have a ten year old son who we take everywhere with us so alot of the things we do are family orientated anyway, Maybe this will change when our son gets older and we can do things with out him.