or wait until everything is final?
2006-10-09 14:10:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should wait until you get the final decree of divorce. You are only seperated, that means you are still LEGALLY married. Until all of the i's are dotted and t's are crossed and you get that FINAL decree of divorce you will be legally married.
2006-10-09 19:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are hoping that you might still get back together with your husband, then no. He may say that you can do what you like, but in reality he won't be able to accept the idea of you dating.
On the other hand, if you are convinced that the marriage is over and that you'll never get back together, then you should get out there and start dating. It will help you get over the breakup and make you feel a whole lot better.
2006-10-09 14:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by Kylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you want to go out on a date. You should just do it see how it makes you feel. On the date are you enjoying yourself? After the date are you excited or sad? you need to do this maybe to see how you are feeling about the divorce maybe it will answer some berried questions that you have now.
2006-10-09 14:56:57 · answer #3 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and his ex got divorced b/c she however cheated so while they were separated going through the divorce i met him. I've made his life so much better. So i'd say yeah go ahead and start dating. Maybe you can find you a man to make your life better. Good luck.
2006-10-09 14:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should wait if it makes you feel guilty. but i wouldn't let a good opportunity pass by. if you happend to meet someone great, he would understand that you want the divorce finalized. it also says alot about you that you are faithfull. so date but finish the divorce before taking a new relationship to the next level. i hope that makes sense.
2006-10-10 06:19:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a decision only you can make i chose to date as soon as i was separated and stable but for you it may be different you have to do what you feel is right just dont jump in to soon cause rebound relationships dont always work the way you want.
2006-10-09 14:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by momma3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are a grown woman. If you are truly ready to date, then date. But, think things through first. Dont' rush into dating when you aren't stable emotionally.
2006-10-09 14:21:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may initiate dating. you may break up whether you would be unable to locate him it basically takes somewhat longer. call a criminal expert. There are a lot that provides you with a unfastened consultation. Get out the yellow pages and locate one that does.
2016-12-08 11:49:07 · answer #8 · answered by goslin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on your situation. if he is gonna use you dating against you in divorce proceedings, i would wait or do it very low key. If you think he is not gonna turn it against you and use it against you for leverage during the diorce... Go rioght ahead, as long as you are mentaly and emotionally ready for it! Good luck and have fun!
2006-10-09 14:14:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember:
"They will tell you you can't sleep alone in a strange
place
Then they'll tell you can't sleep with somebody else
Ah but sooner or later you sleep in your own space
Either way it's O.K. you wake up with yourself"
Do what your beliefs lead you to do.
You are your own judge now. How are you going to feel about yourself if you behave in one way or another?
2006-10-09 14:18:25 · answer #10 · answered by shlomogon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋