im dating this guy online and we've been together for about 5 months and we have a very close relationship considering our distance from each other. today he told me that he was going to a reunion party in austin, and i thought it was kinda odd because thats where his ex is going to college. i pointed this out to him, and he assured me that it wasnt to see her. i believed him and i let it go. but then he started being really sweet towards me, saying he wish i was with him right now, and felt lonely. then he told me that he couldnt believe there was a girl in this world like me and we started talking about our future together, and asked me if i really wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. i said of course i do, but he acted like he didnt believe me. he even said, i hope your being honest and not bullshitting me. he isnt about to break up with me or anything is he? i dont want him to be so self conscious about himself that he feels like it isnt going to work out. any advice?
2006-10-09 14:07:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he's in houston and im in illinois. we've never met in person, i can assure you he isnt trying to scam me. both of us have both been in online relationships before.. i even know his ex that he dated online and they broke up because she cheated on him. i think he thinks im going to do the same thing to him, but i wont ever do anything to hurt him, i love him.
2006-10-09 14:22:24 · update #1
he's about to have an emergency and need you to send him money. when that happens, do not send it no matter what lies he tells you. he's setting you up for a scam.
2006-10-09 14:15:47 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you and hi him ever met and actually had the pleasure of enjoying each others company? You might want to re examine your relationship. I don't know the whole story. how far away from each other are you all? He really sounds loyal and sounds like he cares.
2006-10-09 14:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by vickielynnperry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on-line realationship does'nt really work.. he has a girlfriend. you need to live close to him to make sure he is not cheating. i am from san antonio and here my email address if need a friend. efrain78223@yahoo.com
2006-10-09 14:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
um, well FYI I didnt read your whole paragraph so sorry if i say something that doesnt help, but you....you um, I'd have to say you make it so that he's like VIRTUAL boyfriend. as in, you MEET him.
2006-10-09 14:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by sugar4sandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋