I heard of stories of women being turned on by men being jerks and whatnot. Is this true? Do women really like being treated like **** then fall madly in love with you? Some ladies say it makes them all hot and stuff, how do I become a jerk?
2006-10-09 13:53:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Magazines
I hope not, but some sweet women sure do seem to be attracted to some pretty snotty little turds.
2006-10-09 13:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by Rockvillerich 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on what your definition of what a jerk is. A lot of attributes are associated with being a jerk that attract women... such as confidence, . Women don't like "nice guys". If you are too nice, you'll be considered a pushover. If you give a woman everything she wants and you do whatever she says without any complaint, she won't be attracted to you. So, you end up looking like a wuss. Women love a challange... it doesn't have to be intense- playful infact. You should always respect women however that doesn't mean you can't disagree with her. If you think she's wrong, tell her the facts without letting her reaction upset you. Don't say it mean, but say it firm- business like- only if your serious. Women "like" being made fun of in a teased way. Just don't tease her about her appearance... that's usually a no no. It's basically flirting 101. When you tease her, have a little ********* in your attitude while being funny. If she doesn't like you teasin her, tell her she needs to ease up, sit down and not have a heart attack- be incontrol with your reactions to her reactions. Its just cool, confident, and not letting her get to you with the stupid little stuff she may complain about. Women like jerks because they aren't pushovers, they hold their ground; its dangerous and sexy. Jerks can be more of a challenge. Jerks have that swagger and confidence that they are invincible (most unless they calssify as loser/jerk). So some tips: Dress well, women love spontaneity (keeps her guessing), don't let any of their bs pass you, be funny whenever you can, be your confident self, be charming but not overly nice, make her feel safe. It's a vibe you give off. Women are more attracted by a mental attraction than physical- men visa verca. All of these are pretty broad generalizations. Jeez, I wrote a flippin book. This is one fact though, If you are not a challenge then there is no chase. No chase no game. Everyone wants a game. Hope this helps.
Zack
2006-10-09 17:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by Zack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some adult men are jerks because of the fact they think of its cool to be a jerk. women human beings have never suggested they like jerks some adult men basically prefer to have self belief women human beings like it so as that they might have relaxing being a jerk. the completed women human beings wanting jerks is in basic terms a delusion. i'm no longer a jerk and Ive never been refrained from by women human beings.
2016-10-16 00:42:17 · answer #3 · answered by chowning 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only time a woman wishes for a man who is a jerk... is when the woman has NO self esteem and she thinks she deserves no better. I would assume that you do NOT want to be with a woman like that. So, if you want a normal, fun, happy woman, do NOT "try" to be a jerk. Any woman who thinks good of herself and has self-respect will tell a jerk to buzz off.
Stay the nice guy that you are, and a lucky woman will find you (or you will find her). If you turn into a jerk you will 1. end up with a pathetic woman who knows only misery or 2. a woman who breaks up with you
2006-10-09 13:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women hate jerks but they get turned on by them and fall passionately in love with them. No woman wants to be treated like Sh!t but they will treat a man like sh!t unless he does so to her. It doesn't matter how much self-esteem they have or how well educated women are, they will get wet if a man doesn't put up with their attitude, tells them what to do and only accepts things on his terms. Being a jerk is very hard. It requires you to disreguard a very intense sense of empathy while still understanding how you make other's feel.
2006-10-09 14:00:25 · answer #5 · answered by W0LF 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nooo don't be a jerk. I don't like guys who are jerks, but i guess some women do. I wouldn't suggest trying to become one.
2006-10-09 13:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by Meghan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I think it's a turn off when men are jerks.
2006-10-10 08:20:34 · answer #7 · answered by Dawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely no jerks allowed here! I like men who can be sweet and tough.
2006-10-09 13:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by altariela 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i like jerks for some odd reason...it sucks and i wish i didn't. don't become a jerk to get someone to like you!
2006-10-09 13:57:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women just want a man who is confident,the jerk side of them just comes naturaly.......lol
2006-10-09 16:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋