my friend's boyfriend told me he was in love with me
they been fightin lately, so they might end up their relationship pretty soon
if he wasn't my friend's boyfriend, i would like to be with him
but i dont want to deceive her (my friend)
what would you do????
2006-10-09 13:46:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you have to pick. you can't have your friend *and* her boyfriend. you're going to lose one or the other.
2006-10-09 13:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved with this guy because even if your friend breaks up with him you will still know that once the two of them were together. Also, it may cause your friend to feel a bit uncomfortable with your relationship with her and she may wonder if there was something going on when she and this guy were together. This could turn into a very unpleasant situation so please leave it alone and find someone else to share your life with. Don't risk losing a good friend because of some dude.
2006-10-09 20:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, I would stay as far away from him as I could. Nothing good could come of you dating your friend's boyfriend, even if they do break up. Boys will come and go in your life, but your friends are priceless. Don't lose a friend over a guy. He's not worth it.
Guys have a saying, "Bros before hoes." It goes the same for girls, only we don't have an annoying little rhyme about it. ;)
2006-10-09 20:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by Avie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay clear, you will get ditched when something better comes along. he should not have approached you in this way.
The solution. Tell him to end it with your friend or you will tell her of this approach. Then stay away from him. There are plenty of young guys who are honest and shy. This chap sounds as if he likes putting notches on the bed stand.
Friends are more important than sex partners.
2006-10-09 20:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by SunGod 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the friend's boyfriend is always off limits. unless you want to lose that friend. wait a while and then see if the feelings are still there. it will hurt her less and maybe make you realize exactly what you want. but from a girls perspective, your friends boyfriend is off limits until further notice
there are plenty of guys out there!
2006-10-09 20:49:21 · answer #5 · answered by so7lp 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter how much you like him. If she's truelly you're friend you wont do that to her. Unless of course she say's she doen't mind then that's a completely different story.
2006-10-09 20:56:29 · answer #6 · answered by ckmoster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do whatever I wanted to do without care or regard to anyones feelings. Look you only live once, the only way you get on top is by stepping on others.
2006-10-09 20:48:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would stay away. Even if they do break up, stay away for a little while to give their relation some time.
2006-10-09 20:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't step of a friends turf...way off limits...and this guy is a pig for doing that to your friend....she should know what kind of jerk he is
2006-10-09 21:11:43 · answer #9 · answered by tracydawn22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
him even saying while he still with her should tell you something
2006-10-09 20:53:48 · answer #10 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋