I seen him in my bed with another women, but he does not know. But I ask him has he been cheating he says no so I debating wheature I should kick his a** to the curb?
2006-10-09 13:28:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Local Businesses ➔ United States ➔ Kansas City
That type of incident isn't up for debating. If you're in denial, then it's damn on you. The eyes don't lie, but the mouth is full of gull.
2006-10-11 11:28:03 · answer #1 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing is believing. Even if he is denying it, you saw it with your own eyes. Tell him you saw him. You have to make a decision if this guy is worth your time. Love yourself first. Don't dump him and go back the next day. Be firm with your decision. Is this the first time he did this? You could choose to forgive him, but is he going to do it again? Will you ever trust him? You know that Love Must Be Tough!!! Sometimes you have to let somebody go that you love very much. This is also called self respect. If he loves you then he will come back and commit not to cheat again. You have to be strong and show him that you can survive without him. Don't chase after him even if you want to so bad. Flip the script. You have to be in control. You have to really think what kind of relationship you have with this man. Maybe you can do better. This gets old after awhile. You go girl and make the right decision. You're the only one that knows if this relationship is worth saving. Be strong!!!
2006-10-09 14:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by Mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky you did catch him, as horrible as that may be. Now you know the truth, and he needs to know the truth too. Tell him what you saw, and see what he says then. Who knows how many other times hes cheated on you without you knowing. I would kick his *** to the curb. Once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-10-09 13:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by skybluebabyboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think? You saw him in bed with another woman.That sound like an oxymoron to me. Even if he lied to you .It's your decision to make not mine because you have the proof right under your frieking nose. What else do you need a flag.
2006-10-09 13:39:24 · answer #4 · answered by confidoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I have been there myself and the person will never change.
I gave my wife four chances and each time she said the same thing , so off she went to the curb.
2006-10-09 13:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by Howard P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have got the right idea if he is cheating and dening it he is not only a cheater but also a liar. so how can you trust anything he has to say. I think you deserve better than a liar and cheater. So stand up to him and let him know that you also know what he is.
2006-10-09 13:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by MFEMFEM M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, some men don't consider it cheating. They consider it their God given right to do as they please.
He is a cheat and worse a liar. Let him go and make room in your life for someone worthy of you.
2006-10-09 13:47:17 · answer #7 · answered by Freddy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you saw him why ask
2006-10-09 13:35:56 · answer #8 · answered by holla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dumb him for sure.
2006-10-09 13:36:07 · answer #9 · answered by atticus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋