well my bro.go to the same school with me.. i have a bf at school but the problem is he doesnt even know that i have a bf.. or even my parents.. im scared to let them know..dat i hav a secret relationship at school..they will get mad at me.. and i dont know what to do if it happens.. i love my boyfriend.. sometimes i cant spend my time with him because of my brother...and my bf understands me because he dont want me to get into trouble.. what am i gonna do... what if my bf cant take it anymore.. am i goin to continue having a secret relationship with him or just broke up with him...omg i really dont kno wut to do...
2006-10-09 13:25:58 · 6 answers · asked by anne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have to understand that this is just as hard on him too. Why would your parents be mad? Do you have a no dating rule? I think its important that your parents know about it. Just to let you know I'm not some parents helping another parent out by saying this. I'm in high school and I have a bf too, and trust me as unreasonable as parents can be they'll be there when it counts.
2006-10-09 13:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should talk 2 one of your parents that you are closer 2 when nobody is around and then just bring up the subject but dont make it obvious that u have a bf already jus tell your parent that you hav feelings for this person and u just wanted to let them know.
2006-10-09 20:31:04 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i know your parents will be upset because you have a secret but if you really want to be with him you have to tell your parents. they will get over it and they will still love you. They will have to learn that you are growing up and wont be a little girl forever. I know they dont want you to unhappy. Also tell oyour brother and help him to understand and make sure he dont tell your parents. And let him meet your boyfriend so that he can get to know him and then when you tell your parents he will be able to bag you up and tell them that he is really a good guy.
2006-10-09 20:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by Ask Ashlynn!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY GURL!!! LOOK THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO IS TO BE TRUTHFUL ABOUT YOUR B/F TO YOUR FAMILY, YOU CANT HIDE IT FOREVER BECAUSE EVENTUALLY HE'LL GET TIRED OF IT ESPECIALLY IF IT DOESNT LET YOU SPEND TIME TOGETHER!! JUST LET YOUR PARENTS KNOW AND LISTEN FIRST TO WHAT THEY TELL YOU BEFORE RESPONDIN BACK!! THEY MIGHT LIKE HIM IF THATS WHAT YOU'RE SCARED OF!!! IF YOU REALLY LIKE THIS GUY THEN WHY KEEP YOUR RELATIONSHIP A SECRET YOU KNOW!!! IF YOU LIKE HIM AND THERES NOTHING REALLY THAT SEPARATES YOU FROM EACH OTHER BESIDES THAT YOUR PARENTS DONT KNOW ABOUT IT THEN WHY BREAK UP!!! HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT FOR YOU!!! :) (REALLY JUST TELL YOUR PARENTS, I KNOW ITS EASIER SAID THEN DONE BUT YOU SHOULD!!)
2006-10-09 20:33:27 · answer #4 · answered by GigglesGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you should do is to tell your brother. I think he is not only your brother but your friend too. Try to explain in a good manner.
I hope he will understand you. All the best.
2006-10-09 20:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by New 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell ur brother and ur family just keep bewetten u and ur man and wait till u get a job and then u can move in wit each other and then u can spend everything and everyday wit him and u can make it ^ 2 him while yall can move. good luck
2006-10-09 20:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋