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I'll make this short and sweet since it is my first question. How do I tell my girlfriend of 1 and a half years that I have a foot fetish? I'm worried she will think its' weird because she is very straight laced. I'm fine without the fetish and love everything about her, but would ike to tell her. What do you think?

2006-10-09 13:16:53 · 3 answers · asked by johnnycobracage 1 in Social Science Gender Studies

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Sometime soon, when youre just sitting together, ask her put her feet in your lap. Tell her you want to give her a foot rub. No sane woman would refuse this!! After a couple of minutes say "I have an idea", and go get some lotion. Rub her feet with the lotion. Watch her reaction {but don't stare}. She might REALLY like it.

For the first time, leave it at that. A few days later, bring it up. "You know, The other day when I was rubbing your feet, it kind of excited me. I've always enjoyed looking at womens feet, I guess I have a bit of a fetish! I'd like to rub your feet again someday, I quite enjoyed it. What do you think?"

Hopefully she will agree. Then you can take it a little further. Before you know it, she will be painting her toenails ruby red, wearing a toe ring, ankle bracelet, and six inch black patent stilettos!

Enjoy.

2006-10-09 13:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by kitty-mama 4 · 5 0

I wouldn't. However, I would include foot worship in your pattern of love making. Most women love to have their feet massaged, and this is a way to break the ice. Start with rubbing her feet after a tired day, then work up to washing them, massaging them, rubbing oil on them. Depending on her response, (she'll either let you know right away that its a turn off, or melt), go the next step with is sucking and licking her feet when she's highly aroused. Just take baby steps and at some point if it seems she really likes it, talk about what it does for you. I wouldn't use the work "fetish" unless she is intelligent and open minded sexually.
Oh and who do you think you are kidding? You are NOT fine without the fetish or you wouldn't be asking a bunch of strangers about how to spring it on her. Take it slow and try to show her how enjoyable foot worship can be. Good luck to you.

2006-10-10 15:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0 0

Definitely start with a massage or two and work it into a regular thing. Then ask her if you could give her a pedicure and eventually work into a regular routine of pampering her that way. My hubby is great at french pedicures (even better than the salon). He has really perfected it to the point where other women at the office tell me how nice my nails look and ask where I get them done! As an extra added touch, take her shoe shopping for something expensive that will show off her pedicure nicely. This should work out nicely for her and at the same time be exciting for you!

2006-10-10 14:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by melissaknowes 1 · 0 0

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