help me decide?

Question

should i try out for cheer?
if i dont then me and my friend would not be good friends anymore because her friend is going to try out for cheer and so is she and they are both good at cheer so they would make it on the team and then they would be even better friends.

but cheer is $480!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!i feel like it is a waste of money and i dont have time to go to all the games because it is usually the same time as my dance classes....

my mom said she doesnt care what i decide as long as im happy

but im bad at making decisions

Answer 1

Ahh, don't do cheer. Your time is better spent on dancing. From yur other question, it seems like you're very much into dancing. You also say you can't make it to all of the games. Decide for yourself if you really want to switch to cheer. Your friend will still be your friend if she is a true friend. If she's twisting your arm into doing stuff that you don't have the time for then she's being selfish that's all. We all can turn selfish sometimes, and it's OK to say no. How about you make her take the dance classes with you? Would that be fare to her? No, I don't think so.

Answer 2

Before you try-out for the cheer team, I would sit down with the director/coach of the team to find out the time commitments for both games and practices.

From there, you have to decide what is most important to your heart. If your friend won't be friends with you because dancing was closer to your heart and she can't support you in that, then she probably isn't that great of a friend to begin with.

Your Mom really does want you to be happy but remember that cheer and dance classes can add up and you need to be giving 100% to whatever you decide. If you want to cheer to have her friendship, talk to your friend and let her know your concerns.

Decide what is most important to you in the long run and go from there. Good luck!

Answer 3

okay.
which one do you like better?
if you like dancing better than your friends should want you to dance.
but
if you think you might like cheerleading give it a try.


i mean im a cheerleader.
and
i like it.
but it might not be for you.



talk to your friend.
and
tell her how you feel.
like tell her you think if you dont try out yall wont be as good friends.
and
stuff.


but
if yall are good friends it shouldnt split yall apart.
i mean my best friend doesnt cheer.
she comes to all of my games though.
and
we hang out every weekend.
we always find some way to hang out.


so.
if you dont do cheerleading youll find a way and yall will still be friends.



just do what make you happier and what your better at..


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Answer 4

Def do it! Do it and like it, get rly into it and get good at it. If you're mom puts money into it she wants to see you happy and if that will do it then deff! Also, if you get rly good at it, scholorships baby! Think of how ur mom would like that lol. More importantly it's about you're happiness so if it sounds like sumthin u would put time and effort and money into it then yeah but if you don't have a good attitude a/b it DON'T DO IT!

Answer 5

are you talking about cheerliding? because they are stuck up that is no good . i wouldn't do that .