my best friend is a girl but she is afraid to do stuff with me out of church becouse she thinks it would be dating
how do i make it clear i wanna go as friends and not a date
P.S. i do have a crush on her so don't tell me things to ruin it
i just wanna do stuff as friends right now
2006-10-09 12:53:07 · 4 answers · asked by blah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, just take to school dances, just as friends, then if it turns out to be fun ask her out on a real date or something. don't make it to obviously that you have a crush on her. if there is a good opportunity to take her somewhere do that. Good luck :)
2006-10-09 13:01:17 · answer #1 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, i think it is sweet that you want to spend time with your friend out-side of church, the truth is however if you do have a crush on her (which you said you do) you will only end up hurt by doing this, she is probably being a very caring friend saying NO, she dosnt want to see you hurt specially if she caused it......enjoy what you have now, it's better than not at all......
2006-10-09 19:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by Donna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may pick up on that crush you have on her and going out may be too much for her to handle no matter how much you screem friends.
2006-10-09 20:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have ulterior motives your body language will give you away. What is wrong with being truthful?
Is there any impediment to date this girl?
2006-10-09 19:59:14 · answer #4 · answered by Freddy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋