A girl sexually abused me and I talked to the school couselor about it and a few weeks later she brought me into her office with the abuser (she's in my class) and blamed everything on me. Can I report her?
2006-10-09 12:43:34 · 15 answers · asked by A.J. B 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Yes you best report her as she has belittled you and took your rights away.Not to mention her violation with the school board. She's a wing nut.
2006-10-09 12:53:28 · answer #1 · answered by kipdawneast 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is as much as the counselor. If she thinks that it may do extra harm to inform others approximately it, then she would refrain. If she comes to a decision which you would be appeared at further by a well being middle, that would ensue, besides the indisputable fact that it is extremely no longer likely that she would have you ever "commited" or something stupid like that. next risk you get to speak to her, convey your subject. i'm specific she deeply values your shopper/counselor healing courting, and could do virtually something to maintain it reliable. She needs you to believe her, and you decide on her to believe you, so in case you tell her which you do no longer choose her to pass on your mom and dad or everybody else approximately it, she will have the skill to no longer... until eventually the self harming turns into super sufficient which you're a severe risk on your very own well being.
2016-10-16 00:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by chowning 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your avatar looks male.
Most societies do not believe that females can sexually abuse others, male or female.
"sexually abused" is such a wide range of behaviors these days.
If I were screamed at or touched in apropriately .. because I am male I would probably ignore it. If I were actually raped or feel I was endangered; I would do everything in my power to feel safer ..probably even changing schools or towns.
And at this time it seems to be your word against the girl's word. Not a good plan unless there are witnesses. All sorts of terrible things can be said and done w/o witnesses or witnesses who are not willing to speak up.
so the options seem to be either drop it if it wasn't too bad and you feel safe .. or escalate it if you feel unsafe or that you feel your reputation is in jeopardy. but if you escalate it be forewarned that it might get really, really ugly.
I would find another venue to ask this question .. probably social services downtown. not at the school or whever this counciler was.
2006-10-09 13:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You would be foolish to not report this. Talk to your parents and have them go into school with you. If you get nowhere with the school, go to the Board of Education. Your parents may also consider going to the police and filing a complaint. The school doesn't want that kind of attention and perhaps if you mention this at the school level meeting, something will be done.
2006-10-09 12:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by hazeleyedbeauty1967 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you for real?sorry but I am a little shocked.I am a counsellor,and there is no way that I would do this,and even if you told me that's what you wanted to do,I would have strongly advised you not to.if I were in your shoes ,yes I would report her.speak to your parents about first so that know what is going on,just in case it gets a little out of hand.I hope it all works out for you.best of luck with it all.
2006-10-09 20:35:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!!! You went to her with a problem and she made it worse. She needs to be reported before something worse happens. Also, please talk to some one else about the abuse. Just because she is a girl does not give her the right to abuse you. Good luck and keep us posted.
2006-10-09 12:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by Donna J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would immediately obtain a female attorney, and with her go to the Superintendent of Schools. If the situation is as you describe, then you are on thin ice and need help. it is likely to escalate and you would want to get ahead of the curve, if possible.
Liars do so effectively and extensively, and they are capable of turning others quickly. Get help, there are attorneys that will take your case pro bono [no charge].
Peace
2006-10-09 13:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by docjp 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I need to find out if its a conflict of interest if you go to a counselor and they do a evaluation then they tell you. You need classes and there the one doing the classes. because they own the business.
2014-07-17 02:58:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you and she know what really happened. Sometimes we see things from vastly different perspectives. You need help to understand what happened. It looks as though this counsellor is not doing her job properly.
But females sometimes do abuse males, and if she did, you should keep saying so, until someone listens to you.
2006-10-09 12:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by Hal H 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely!
2006-10-09 12:51:35 · answer #10 · answered by It'sMe23 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋