2006-10-09 12:40:52 · 10 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to each other. Listen to each other. Spend time alone, with just each other. Schedule this time, and keep it, like it was an appointment.
Touch, throughout the day, in affectionate, but non-sexual ways. Hold hands.
Respect each other. Dress up for each other, like you were still dating.
CHOOSE your battles. Let stuff go.
Make love frequently (even if one of you may not particularly feel like it).
Focus on your partner (BOTH of you!) not yourself.
Support each other. Present a united front to the world. Turn TO each other not ON each other.
I am forced to agree with the poster immediately below me! ;-))
2006-10-09 12:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by zen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just, maybe when he goes to work, you can prepare a very romantic dinner, eventually he'll want to have sex and then that's when love starts, do this every so often, as much as you like, to show him you really care and that you love him...just a suggestion...
2006-10-09 19:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by chaos causer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having lots of love and having fun with one another and making each other laugh doing fun things together like going to a game bowling church or even just going to eat a burger! : 0
I love my husband and this is what we do for fun and our marriage is alive! : )
2006-10-09 19:59:18 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being married myself, you have to learn to make quality time for each other first of all. Then once you have it, plan a nice picnic, go out to dinner and wine and dine your spouse. Be spontaneous and uninhibited with love-making. Role-play. Be daring and risk- taking. Do what you have to do. Because if you dont do it, another woman will and gladly at that.
2006-10-09 19:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for 20 years. We go out for dinner about once a month. Once you have kids, every day is kinda new anyway...so I suppose our kids keep our marriage alive.
2006-10-09 19:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by Ted Jordan 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
act as if you were still single....
I hate marriage It's like prison
2006-10-09 20:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key is love, and the rest follows.
2006-10-09 19:42:33 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. You can add fun, children, common interests, commitment and if you want the single most important element, God.
2006-10-09 19:44:44 · answer #8 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't want to sound crude, but I'll risk it.
ORAL SEX.
Keep us happy and we will never leave.
2006-10-09 19:45:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
money...get it and then comes sex...romance then finally love. But what does love have to do with it
2006-10-09 19:42:41 · answer #10 · answered by cjordan23 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋