dont get mad ! but women wants everything easy , they go out or on a date n expect all the time men pay for their sh!t i'm tire of that
2006-10-09 12:37:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
*******Well let me explain something for you. ALL WOMEN ARE NOT LIKE THAT, JUST THE ONES THAT YOU COME ACROSS..... and i know because I am a WOMAN!! I am not like that. Yea on the first date or two yea I want him to pay because we just got together and most likely he asked me out in the first place, but after that I can pay for myself. A relationship is 50/50 and I believe that you should not depend on one individual to pay for everything or do everything in a relationship. I am a very simple girl and I dont ask for much just knowing that you appreciate me is good. I likw to spoil my man anyway because he spoils me at times too. He just know the way that I am and if he need something and I got it I will give it and I know that if I need something and he got it that he give it to me. Thats the type of person that I am. Everything 50/50 No one person should have to do more than the other in a relationship.
2006-10-09 12:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by Ask Ashlynn!!!! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is somewhat of a broad generalization. It appears that the women you date or take to dinner are self serving that certainly does not apply to all women.
As you said there are some expectations that when you ask someone -whether the male or the female does the asking that person should pay. Unless it's agreed upon that you go dutch.
I personally do not expect any guy to pay, but it's a nice gesture if they do and if there is a second date I always offer to pick up the tab or try invite him out again so that I can pick up the tab.
2006-10-09 19:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by solgiver 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of women do you date? The women I know have a different attitude: if they ask the guy out, they pay. If he asks, he pays. If they agree to share the cost of something (a weekend trip or a vacation) they split the cost. If you hate it so much then just keep your angry butt at home until you've calmed down.
No woman wants to be lumped into the category of "All Women." If you're not man enough to see how we're different, then it's you that has the problem. It's not our fault that you don't know a good woman when you see one. We don't generalize men that way, and you shouldn't generalize women.
2006-10-09 19:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's a cultural thing, I'm afraid. When two people are on a date, it's kind of like a job interview of sorts. You're basically trying to find out what the other has to offer and what they are willing to offer.
If it bothers you so much, say so and ask if you can go dutch. If the woman isn't okay with it, do you really want to see her again?
2006-10-09 19:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by Avie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i asked some1 out on a date id expect to pay just dont ask women out and you wont have to pay lol
2006-10-09 19:41:02 · answer #5 · answered by lady_luck 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH my goodness!!! Listen up little buddy.....I have my own money and NEVER ask anyone to pay my way. Not all women are this way. Perhaps you are looking for your women in the wrong place!
2006-10-09 19:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
it gets better as you get older. ive dated the ones that daddy gave them everthing. but the ones that work and have to pay for some of their own stuff or better all of it will appreciate that you pay and will help out or pay for movies if you pay for dinner. something like that.
2006-10-09 19:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by notsoperfectgentleman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well maybe u are askin out broke gold diggers bc honey not all women are like that. i got my own money now just bc men like to pay for me is not my problem. i pay my own way tho bc i aint havin no man think i owe him anything especially sex for some lame date. see u need to learn there are cheap gold diggers n them ladies like myself who are high class and independant. learn the difference and find us.. we do exsist
2006-10-09 19:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no pay equals no play
2006-10-09 19:39:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋